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Old 12-23-2010, 11:59 PM
 
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I kind of feel embarrassed about posting this but whatever, we're all anonymous right? I was chatting with a male friend earlier and the subject of sex came up. I mentioned I hadn't had sex since my last relationship 20 months ago. I'm in my early 20s. He seemed shocked, and proceeded to tell me how sorry he felt and how sad my situation was, lol. I don't have a high sex drive and am totally ok with my situation, in fact I've never felt ashamed or embarrassed to admit I haven't had sex in foreever. I'm proud of myself. I value a committed relationship more than I value meaningless sex. So anyway, what's the longest you've been without it?
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Old 12-24-2010, 12:03 AM
 
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I'll just say a lot longer than you. Stay true to yourself and don't let anybody else drag you down about your convictions and values. Some people can't get their heads around the fact that some people are happy by themselves or at least happy enough to wait for a good relationship. Cheers to you.
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Old 12-24-2010, 01:17 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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I'll just say....a lot longer than any of you. And I was married.

I wasted too much time.
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Old 12-24-2010, 02:28 AM
 
Location: In my ponytail dreams
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desert
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Old 12-24-2010, 04:40 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I'm proud of myself. I value a committed relationship more than I value meaningless sex. So anyway, what's the longest you've been without it?
A casual relationship (casual sex). Is up there with the best sex I've ever had. You havn't lived till you have experienced it.
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:04 AM
 
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6 months, was away from my fiancé, so sex wasn't doable.
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:05 AM
 
Location: maryland
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14 years... :-P
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:10 AM
 
Location: Omaha, NE
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14 years... :-P
ditto
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Now thats a damn shame!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:13 AM
 
Location: Omaha, NE
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Now thats a damn shame!!!!!!!!!!!!
well i wasn't really look from birth to 14. haha wasn't really looking then either...just happened.
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