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Old 01-03-2011, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Bars - I'm under 21
Clubs - See above, also they're loud
Coffee shops - everyone always seems buried in a book or their computer or something
etc

Where have y'all met women?
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:05 PM
 
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I'm female, but I certainly remember when I was your age, and there was no shortage of guys hanging around - at both college and work. I can't imagine anyone your age not knowing where to meet girls.
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:07 PM
 
Location: California
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Looking for men! Where are you! LOL
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I'm female, but I certainly remember when I was your age, and there was no shortage of guys hanging around - at both college and work. I can't imagine anyone your age not knowing where to meet girls.
Yeah there're a ton of women at my college but I commute right now and let's face it, it's a lot harder to get to know a girl or grab her attention when you see her maybe 50 minutes out of the day. Whereas someone living on campus can see her whenever (unless of course she commutes).
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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Bars - I'm under 21
Clubs - See above, also they're loud
Coffee shops - everyone always seems buried in a book or their computer or something
etc

Where have y'all met women?
honestly dude, the store, any store. you could even go to a nice clothing store and meet women. the beach. work. they are all over the place. go to a big shoe store and pretend you work there and help them try on shoes.
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:22 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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honestly dude, the store, any store. you could even go to a nice clothing store and meet women. the beach. work. they are all over the place. go to a big shoe store and pretend you work there and help them try on shoes.
Interesting approach
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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honestly dude, the store, any store. you could even go to a nice clothing store and meet women. the beach. work. they are all over the place. go to a big shoe store and pretend you work there and help them try on shoes.
Creepy approach
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:27 PM
 
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Do you have time to stay at school? Hang out at the student union or something.

Under 21 live music shows.

Parties.

Study at the campus library?

Start working out at the campus gym, or take some of the fitness classes the gym offers. My university had yoga, flag football, etc.

Really, you are at the prime spot to meet girls, even if you do commute. Do you talk to the girls in your class? If not, start! Then after you had a few conversations, ask her to coffee.

I think your best bet is to find a way to stay on campus longer. It is much easier to engage in a conversation with your student peers, than approaching random girls in parks or coffee shops.

If you think it is hard to meet girls now, wait until you finish college.
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:28 PM
 
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honestly dude, the store, any store. you could even go to a nice clothing store and meet women. the beach. work. they are all over the place. go to a big shoe store and pretend you work there and help them try on shoes.

Don't do that.
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Old 01-03-2011, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL (Northside)
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Interestingly enough, the shoe store idea would be a good look to meet women. I mean, women frequent shoe stores 24-7 so why not?
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