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Off limits to me is if she is married and with him. Won't do it. Although if she is separated but still married I will, in that case married is just a term at that point.
Off limits is also any chick currently with a friend, and sometimes even if she is a ex if it will bring conflict to my friendship.
Most of all any women with a band member, I value being in a good band 100 times more than a woman. A good band that has karma together is hard to find and it is hard enough to keep one from disbanding without adding women conflict into it.
Been a couple time where a band member's girl or ex came on to me and no way no how........
Think it is hard to find that one special other? Trying finding 3 or 4 and keeping it together for a lengthy time.
Would never date someone who is married, or a relative (aside from the obvious, I have enough seeing them at Christmas!), co-worker might be okay. Also off-limits for me would be friends' exes. I don't want to know where my friends have been!
Married men and cohabitating men with children--no. I might consider dating a legally separated man (with no children--bio OR step), because the dissolution of marriage has been put in motion--but I couldn't commit to him until he was legally divorced. Co-workers are not completely out--depends on the situation. Relatives--No, there's enough decent men around that I shouldn't have to date a relative! I'm a firm believer in "what goes around comes around" and not confusing red flags with pretty handkerchiefs flapping in the wind.
Last edited by laorbust61; 01-15-2011 at 04:06 PM..
I think some of the comments about coworkers seem very old fashioned. Many couples meet at work. Of course I would draw the line at marrying my sister and having a Mother who's also my Mother in law even if I lived in the seediest trailer park in North America.
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