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Old 01-04-2011, 05:53 PM
 
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I understand the ramifications, hence my ethical sense saying no.

 
Old 01-04-2011, 05:57 PM
 
Location: S. Florida
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I am attracted to, and frankly want to have sex with, a married woman. But my sense of ethics tell me it's wrong. She is married and I don't want to break up a marriage.

But she is so sweet and kind, and has a killer body. I am torn, my conscience says one thing, but my libido says the opposite.
My word of advise is not to mess with a married woman unless you are looking to cause grief in your life and or hers...Listen to what your conscience is saying!
 
Old 01-04-2011, 05:58 PM
 
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It depends...maybe her husband is unwell, and she is staying with him for commitment reasons, but needs a break. If you go into this realizing the issues, it is better for all parties. And it is a break from women who usually want to have a relationship.
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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As you get older, samston, you will probably get married and think back on this and be like, "Oh man, I'm glad I had some self-discipline back then!"
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:05 PM
 
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What makes you think she wants to sleep with you?
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:08 PM
 
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If she was as sweet and kind as you say she is, she wouldn't sleep with you anyway.
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Bucks, UK
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i doubt there is any need to worry. he says she's sweet and kind and has a great body.

im struggling to see why she would risk a marriage for an affair with a guy who has, thus far, found it nigh on impossible to form any meaningful relationships with another human being.

if she does, then she deserves everything that comes to her.
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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Think of the ramifications, especially if she has children...
Yo, think about that severe bone breaking a** whippin' you will take when the Husband finds out.
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:16 PM
 
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What makes you think she wants to sleep with you?
I had the same question.
 
Old 01-04-2011, 06:17 PM
 
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If she was as sweet and kind as you say she is, she wouldn't sleep with you anyway.
Why not? You don't know me.
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