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So there's this friend of mine. We used to work together, became real good friends, nothing more. She's very cute, so I would have no problem having a very CASUAL relationship, FWB if you will, but really don't have much interest past that.
Anyways, I would never think to approach the subject, but she's kind of had an attitude change as of recent. She's told me about some of the stuff she likes doing under the covers, said she had a sex dream about me (but no to read too much into it), and has been sending me texts really late at night (last night at 3am... "Preditor! Mutherf'er! I miss you!")
What's your take on this? Again, if nothing ever happens that'd be ok... she's a good friend who just also happens to be super cute.
If you truly care about her as a treasured friend and nothing more than that, don't do it (FWB) !!!
If you do it, you'll probably only end up hurting her...
So there's this friend of mine. We used to work together, became real good friends, nothing more. She's very cute, so I would have no problem having a very CASUAL relationship, FWB if you will, but really don't have much interest past that.
Anyways, I would never think to approach the subject, but she's kind of had an attitude change as of recent. She's told me about some of the stuff she likes doing under the covers, said she had a sex dream about me (but no to read too much into it), and has been sending me texts really late at night (last night at 3am... "Preditor! Mutherf'er! I miss you!")
What's your take on this? Again, if nothing ever happens that'd be ok... she's a good friend who just also happens to be super cute.
I'd say it sounds like the Preditor has become the Prey!!
Sounds like you need to give her the green light. Just don't say a bunch of stuff you don't mean like "i love you" etc. Nothing wrong with a little bump and grind. Don't let the jealous crowd rain on your parade. But at the same time assume nothing. If she's your friend, you owe her the truth in regards to what you are looking for or expect. I say invite her over and enjoy.
I have been down this road before, and I am stressing this: Be careful. What you might think is you're getting a simple roll in the hay, but remember a woman's emotions come into play. A girl needs to feel an emotional connection before she'll open her legs. If you ditch her, she can feel very used and resentful, and things can get ugly.
Of course, she might just be looking to F, but most times it's more complicated than that.
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