KISSING during.... (guys, partner, Florida, like)

[DCNative]

Originally Posted by Marlow

I think Spritwalker is a guy....not that there's anything wrong with that.

Wha??

My bad, thought spiritwalker was a girl! *DCNative shakes hands with spiritwalker* -- "ahem, nice to meet you. Have a nice day"

[spiritwalker]

Originally Posted by DCNative

Wha??

My bad, thought spiritwalker was a girl! *DCNative shakes hands with spiritwalker* -- "ahem, nice to meet you. Have a nice day"

Yo DC,
Glad we cool with that.You feelin' me ? I'm down with shakin' hands.
Spiritwalker

[Marylandkitten]

Sprit and DC ... sittin in a tree ... P - O - S -T -I - N - G !!!!!!!

sorry, had to.

[Lisa_from_Debary]

You guys are hilarious.

I like to kiss while making love...before, during and after.

I can't imagine being with someone who didn't kiss often and with their tongue. I would feel badly if that was left out.

Maybe you should just take what you want...men like that sometimes.

[CityGirl72]

I tried "just taking" - my husband looks at me weird

But it's okay - he's a bad kisser anyhow (how sad is that?!)

[lpdsag]

My husband and I always kiss but not usually during the "act" itself. This is just to difficult. What I would like most men to know though is that most women need some pre-heating. You just can't hop into bed and jump right into things. Women like the closeness and kissing. "Makes things much more comfortable." So men, do us women a favor and "PREHEAT" the oven before you start cooking!

[floridadreamer]

Originally Posted by spiritwalker

I am a guy....Just to clear that up

I knew you were a guy.

So it seems on TWO guys are brave enough to "put it all out there".

I am guessing those are the guys that don't like to, but don't want to explain WHY because it might mean admitting TOO MUCH.

THANK YOU for responding DCNATIVE and SPIRITWALKER.

[floridadreamer]

I guess I should share....

I've asked my husband why he doesn't like to kiss much during sex, and his response was, "I do". But then he never does. I mean he might right after I ask him, but to be honest he doesn't kiss me the way I WANT to be kissed. It doesn't take long before he's back to his old habits. Come to think of it, that's not just with sex, it's also with housework.

As far as the "O", I don't always want to do that before we get together because it's a totally experience when it happens "together". Also, sometimes I just the closeness of sex, so I don't always need to. Plus, I am more willing to "give" if I haven't done that yet.

[MsB23]

Originally Posted by lpdsag

My husband and I always kiss but not usually during the "act" itself. This is just to difficult. What I would like most men to know though is that most women need some pre-heating. You just can't hop into bed and jump right into things. Women like the closeness and kissing. "Makes things much more comfortable." So men, do us women a favor and "PREHEAT" the oven before you start cooking!

YES!!! Please, preheat! I can do such a better job when properly preheated...& it only takes a little nuzzling...just an extra couple of minutes...

Kissing is good, but if I am focused on the task at hand, it can be a little distracting...um...but part of that I think is because generally my BF & I are not face to face, so getting everything lined up can be challenging... hehe (TMI?)

[MsB23]

Oh yeah, & I don't really want an O beforehand...we have a toddler in the house, so I don't want to take that much time (it takes longer on its own) I'd rather us "go" together, personally.