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Old 01-20-2011, 12:31 AM
 
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Hello people. I was watching this guys video series about a girl and I find it interesting and a bit creepy. I'm wondering if others feel the same way.

OK, here's how it goes. This guy says he grew up being picked on because of being a nerd and how he acted. He says he didn't have many friends. He goes on to talk about how he didnt want to be a "thug" or "wanna be thug" like so many other young black guys in his area, and he talks about being into God and living like a Christian, being a good man and so on.

He said there's this one girl he always had a crush on, and finally he got her number (through another girl). He says they developed a "friendly relationship" (never a couple though).

Well, it turns out she was a user, or as the popular saying these days go, a "Gold Digger."

She used him to buy her things, and after she was done, she stopped talking to him, cold turkey.

Instead of realizing he just got used by a female with sheisty ways and just moving on like a man, he continues to want this girl.

I can understand that if a "friend" all of a sudden stops talking to someone, they would want some closure as to why?

Well, here's where it gets a little fishy to me. He calls and calls her to find out what's wrong. She doesnt reply. He tries to send her messages on a social network (myspace) and she blocks him. HE CREATES MORE PAGES TO CONTACT HER and she continues to block him.

The message should have sunk in that maybe he should just move on, correct? Not with this guy....

He makes a VIDEO SERIES of about 8-10 vids (most over 10 mins long) with pictures of the girl included. This series has gone on for SEVERAL MONTHS, ALMOST A YEAR.

He proclaims these videos as a dedication over how much love he has for her.

(Here's where it gets more fishy to me)

If you read the comments on some of his videos (the last one where the guy gives him advice on the comments), he goes into talking about how "soon she will wake up and realize how special I am, It's a cold hard fact this will happen and I know it"

DOESN'T THIS SOUND A BIT CREEPY AND BORDERLINE HARRASSING???

Here are the videos:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oj2wfPX-lSw


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQaNI3R5V98


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAicRMOBFQ4


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LTkrFLE0ds


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzJUl-KLYnE


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH4wh9GLYcg


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9vlpjBw1J8


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVhVFgg9MQU


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPM7ZxEKJWY


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmWzL419n9Y
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:02 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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This kid could be the poster child for the insane. Nothing good will come from this.
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:06 AM
 
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um... are you "this guy"?
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:21 AM
 
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Maybe he's just clueless and a bit excessive, but the result is creepy all the same and I know, if I were that girl, that it would get on my nerves very soon.
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:26 AM
 
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I barely made it through a minute of the first video. All I will say is that this man should be arrested immediately for attempting to bore people to death
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:55 AM
 
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This kid could be the poster child for the insane. Nothing good will come from this.
My thoughts exactly.
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Old 01-20-2011, 03:00 AM
 
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um... are you "this guy"?
That would be a NO.

Considering my stance here, why in the world would you even think that?


I saw this guy's videos on youtube, I noticed several of the comments showing praise to him for being such a "good christian" and "dedicated sweetheart" and I just knew I couldn't be the only person out there who shared my beliefs about this obviously obsessed character.
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Old 01-20-2011, 04:24 AM
 
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i skipped straight to video 5 and i think 2 things:
1. this kid needs some serious help because he is spending a LOT of time doing these videos--perhaps he should get some fresh air and maybe he will meet another girl.
2. shanequa is probably eating this up--she is becoming you tube famous and is probably loving every second of it.
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Old 01-20-2011, 05:13 AM
 
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I didn't even finish the first one. You should remove these links from here. You're only feeding the ego of a rather sick person. I don't know why anyone watches such crap.
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Old 01-20-2011, 06:15 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Having made it all the way to 2:02 of the first video, I can only say that he should just rename the series "Dating Tips For The Unstable" - probably would make a fortune on one of those long one-page webfomercials.

I particularly enjoyed how he claimed "I, Keith, am an educated Christian and thus is(?) blessed with the ability to decipher theological philosophies and analyze their meaning".

That was pretty much the final tip-off...
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