U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 01-27-2011, 06:28 AM
 
471 posts, read 911,241 times
Reputation: 469

Advertisements

So there is a fairly popular thread going about women and there inner lesbian. So I had to ask what about men and their inner homosexual. Does this exist for men? And why is it such a turn on for men to see two women together but the reverse isn't the same for women?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:35 AM
 
95 posts, read 197,555 times
Reputation: 132
Yeah, this one drives me nuts (and you know this!). So many men seem obsessed with seeing two women together in a sexual way, and I don't get it. I definitely don't have that same feeling about men, and I definitely don't have an inner lesbian (although I can appreciate an attractive person of either sex, and do occasionally check out women as I'm sitting there going, "dang, I'd kill for her legs!").

I seriously doubt that any man who is bisexual or actually homosexual has any thoughts about other men, and would probably react aggressively to the suggestion. Our culture is definitely set up in such a way that straight men do not think about other men in any way that could even hit at sexual. I think most women who are with straight men would prefer that their men not think that way either, it's something we've just been conditioned to think. I know I feel that way, and I most certainly do not have a problem with bisexuality or homosexuality (because I just don't care what other people do!).

It's a weird double standard that I don't understand.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
19,020 posts, read 25,546,417 times
Reputation: 11309
Quote:
Originally Posted by john-ever-learning View Post
So there is a fairly popular thread going about women and there inner lesbian. So I had to ask what about men and their inner homosexual. Does this exist for men? And why is it such a turn on for men to see two women together but the reverse isn't the same for women?
If you have an inner homosexual, go float your boat, bro, who cares
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:40 AM
 
2,618 posts, read 5,461,510 times
Reputation: 2104
Quote:
Originally Posted by john-ever-learning View Post
So there is a fairly popular thread going about women and there inner lesbian. So I had to ask what about men and their inner homosexual. Does this exist for men? And why is it such a turn on for men to see two women together but the reverse isn't the same for women?
Ummm, lesbians and homosexuals are the same thing. Lesbians ARE homosexuals....
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:42 AM
 
1,809 posts, read 3,109,334 times
Reputation: 1989
Quote:
Originally Posted by john-ever-learning View Post
So there is a fairly popular thread going about women and there inner lesbian. So I had to ask what about men and their inner homosexual. Does this exist for men? And why is it such a turn on for men to see two women together but the reverse isn't the same for women?
I'm a woman and two men together is a huge turn on for me (and I think it's beautiful), so...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:43 AM
 
2,618 posts, read 5,461,510 times
Reputation: 2104
Quote:
Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka View Post
If you have an inner homosexual, go float your boat, bro, who cares
Word. Just don't do it in front of me.


Seriously though, I don't believe in inner anything. I am who I want to be, I don't lie to myself, I show who I am on the inside to the people I care about on the outside. That's all that matters.

As for a logical explanation? I've been told that men are more easily visually stimulated in a sexual manner, so SEEING lesbians do their thing is satisfying to them. Women tend to be more emotionally stimulated, and they don't receive any emotional affection from two gay men so maybe that's where they lack interest.

(Of course, as my disclaimer from idiot trolls: not all men like lesbians and not all women don't like seeing gay men. Everyone is attracted to different things. See: Fetishes)
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
1,904 posts, read 2,576,103 times
Reputation: 2240
My C-D name says it all.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
19,020 posts, read 25,546,417 times
Reputation: 11309
Quote:
Originally Posted by cdubs3201 View Post
Word. Just don't do it in front of me.


Seriously though, I don't believe in inner anything. I am who I want to be, I don't lie to myself, I show who I am on the inside to the people I care about on the outside. That's all that matters.

As for a logical explanation? I've been told that men are more easily visually stimulated in a sexual manner, so SEEING lesbians do their thing is satisfying to them. Women tend to be more emotionally stimulated, and they don't receive any emotional affection from two gay men so maybe that's where they lack interest.

(Of course, as my disclaimer from idiot trolls: not all men like lesbians and not all women don't like seeing gay men. Everyone is attracted to different things. See: Fetishes)
Yeah, and also what the OP didn't see was that the other thread was started by a dude
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 07:53 AM
 
471 posts, read 911,241 times
Reputation: 469
Ok, I'm not inner or outer homosexual. I dig my straightness and you can ask my fiance as she will concur that I'm as hetero as it gets.

I just find it amusing that in this day and age we still have double standards, like seeing two women making out in club is COOL and seeing two dudes making out is BLEGH.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2011, 08:01 AM
 
Location: Tucson
42,837 posts, read 79,039,435 times
Reputation: 22814
Quote:
Originally Posted by noela View Post
I'm a woman and two men together is a huge turn on for me (and I think it's beautiful), so...
Seriously? I think you're the first woman I've ever heard this from. You'd probably be the last, too.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:

Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads
Follow City-Data.com founder on our Forum or

All times are GMT -6.

2005-2019, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35 - Top