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It means he views you as a B list prospect. He thinks you are "good enough" but not great, so he blows you off when better opportunities come around, even if said opportunity is a night out with his buddies. If you are interested in a relationship, move on.
Last edited by OngletNYC; 01-30-2011 at 05:27 PM..
He went out with you one time, now he needs to explain his life to you? Why are you making such a big deal of this? You don't really know why he cancelled, but now you imagine all kind of reasons. What do you think will happen if you are polite the next time he calls and just say "we need to talk"? You do know he may not have any idea how you feel about this. I don't think your anger is justified. If you treat every guy you go out with the same, the time will come when guys will stop calling.
It means he views you as a B list prospect. He thinks you are "good enough" but not great, so he blows you off when better opportunities come around, even I said opportunity is a night out with his buddies. If you are interested in a relationship, move on.
OngletNYC, now you are a mind reader in addition to being a smart up standing gal. You surprise me!
Hes juggling other women. Any other reason would still make him someone to just forget. Doesn't deserve your time. Ignore him.
EDIT: You know i dont care what his job is. Even if hes a freaking pro bono baby surgeon. Obviously his behavior indicates he either has A. NO TIME FOR A RELATIONSHIP. OR B. HE DOESNT CARE FOR A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. either way its a no go so forget about him.
No, he doesn't need to explain his life to her, but he does need to get out of her life!
ANYMORE.
Yeah, I agree, he needs to stop calling her and just tell their mutual friends she is not his type. He doesn't need to explain to them that she appears to be a ...
He went out with you one time, now he needs to explain his life to you? Why are you making such a big deal of this? You don't really know why he cancelled, but now you imagine all kind of reasons. What do you think will happen if you are polite the next time he calls and just say "we need to talk"? You do know he may not have any idea how you feel about this. I don't think your anger is justified. If you treat every guy you go out with the same, the time will come when guys will stop calling.
I don't expect him to explain his life to me but i do expect him to have the courtesy to explain why he's canceling at the last minute a date that he asked for. It's rude. I didn't ask him out, he did that. I assume it was because he wanted to. I put my life on hold for that day because i made plans with someone who couldn't bother doing the same.
Yeah, I agree, he needs to stop calling her and just tell their mutual friends she is not his type. He doesn't need to explain to them that she appears to be a ...
a what? care to finish your sentence?
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Originally Posted by spinx
Why are you even conversing with him at all if you are so upset? Just stop responding. You are allowing him to string you on.
Well, I'm not initiating the contact, but i reply when he does. Maybe this is just me, but I think it would be rude to just not respond, I do keep it short though.
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