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Old 02-03-2011, 07:47 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Are you able to love unconditionally, meaning that you may not get it in return?

Would you feel comfortable telling someone that you love them knowing full well that they may care for you or even really like you but don't feel love the same way that you do?

Nope..I wont waste my time, ...it just makes you seem desperate and have no self respect for yourself...
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Old 02-03-2011, 08:11 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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It's almost always possible to break someone's love.
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Old 02-03-2011, 08:38 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Nope..I wont waste my time, ...it just makes you seem desperate and have no self respect for yourself...
how so if you're saying it to someone who has shown you great love and kindness?
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Old 02-03-2011, 10:43 AM
 
Location: colorado
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how so if you're saying it to someone who has shown you great love and kindness?

I mean to someone who wont love you back..there are different kinds of love? why would anyone romantically love someonone who wont love them back?
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:36 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I mean to someone who wont love you back..there are different kinds of love? why would anyone romantically love someonone who wont love them back?
Right ... I wouldn't say it to someone who wouldn't love me back. I was wondering more about saying to to someone who might feel love in a different way ... like intimate friendship vs. romantic feelings.
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Old 02-05-2011, 06:33 PM
 
Location: NYC
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if he likes you, he'll try

if he doesn't, he won't

there's no need to be so bent about what happens in the end. continue to love him if you want, there's no real need to declare it. i'm sure he's happy without your declaration... your happiness and his happiness aren't resting on it.

seriously, just relax. let things run their natural course.
I took your advice and relaxed. But I did ask him how did he come to be kind and generous, which led to a deeper conversation. I am very fond of him but it's not love yet.
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