Originally Posted by Malkiel
I have a hard time asking girls out because I feel worthless. I don't feel that I have anything to contribute to them. I'm still a college student but I'm not very handsome and I seriously don't know what I can offer them.
I chatted with a girl online but I didn't want to show her picture because I wanted to went until I've done at least 1 month at the gym. I'm not fat, I weigh around 150 pounds at 5"10.
I don't have very good grades so I can't prove to her that I'm smart.
I used to have confidence but last year I got addicted with something and that'd completely ruined my life. I'd almost failed out of school and made me very depressed. I've recovered from the depression and addiction but I now have less than 10% of my old confidence. Before I would ask questions in class but now I feel like I'm just a twig.
I want some actionable suggestions for improving confidence. I went to see counselling but I don't have it anymore since they don't think I'm depressed enough to commit suicide.
They don't address confidence problems.
1)WORKOUT..I'm serious. WORKOUT. Go to the gym.
You kill 3 birds with one stone.
First you feel great and look great.
second...Women will notice that you look great.
third Guys respect you more.
2) GET SOME HOBBIES
Play the piano.
Play the drums..
Learn to dance...
Play football idk..
Me I love to modify cars. But thats me I have an obsession with cars.Being obsessed with a talent or something you love takes your mind off of things like that.
3) Hangout with guys who get alot of women.
Learn what they do. Study them. Don't be a creep about it. Just learn from the best.
Follow this..and you will A ok.