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Old 02-03-2011, 11:52 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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oh my
Ah! Ms. Carol! You ready to marry me? I dont care what color you are!

 
Old 02-03-2011, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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You're a racist because you date women specifically because of racial reasons and categorize women by race and NOT on the basis of them being an individual.




Are you dating an individual or a "race"? From your post you make it very clear that you are dating RACES and not individuals. That makes you a racist.
If by definition, this^^^^ could be regarded as racism, then this racism is pretty overated imho.
 
Old 02-03-2011, 11:56 AM
 
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You're a racist because you date women specifically because of racial reasons and categorize women by race and NOT on the basis of them being an individual.

The very subject of this thread which you titled yourself is racist:
"Why I Would Never Date an American Black Woman Again".

You separate the women you date according to race and nationality, why even mention something like RACE which is inconsequential and doesn't control how a person thinks, or anything about them?



Are you dating an individual or a "race"? From your post you make it very clear that you are dating RACES and not individuals. That makes you a racist.

I have no idea why you think anyone here called you psychic. Are you psychotic?
Well although I am attracted to any race of women, I am more attracted to black women. I cannot help that. That is why it may seem that way. There are people in this world who do have dating preferences. So because my gender preference is female, am I sexist?

But you really should look up the definition of racist. I am tired of people throwing this word around loosely. Same thing with the word "hater."
 
Old 02-03-2011, 11:57 AM
 
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yeah i don't quite see how his behavior is racist, it might be closed minded, but not racist. I don't date Black women simply because they don't do it for me, am I racist?
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:10 PM
 
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Maybe you could still date American Black Woman but AVOID those kind of women?
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:13 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Well although I am attracted to any race of women, I am more attracted to black women. I cannot help that. That is why it may seem that way. There are people in this world who do have dating preferences. So because my gender preference is female, am I sexist?

But you really should look up the definition of racist. I am tired of people throwing this word around loosely. Same thing with the word "hater."
When you choose one person over another simply based on their "so called RACE", that makes you a racist.

You are using "race" as a criteria with regard to who you prefer to date and the subject of the woman in this post is black women.

It's not me who needs to look up a definition in the dictionary it's you.
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:16 PM
 
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When you choose one person over another simply based on their "so called RACE", that makes you a racist.
Not necessarily, people have preferences that are based on what attracts them
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:17 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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I doubt that black American women will lose any sleep tonight because one racist decides he's swearing them off to seek the greener pastures of black women from other nationalities.
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:18 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Maybe you could still date American Black Woman but AVOID those kind of women?
I agree.

I think the type of person you are has very little to do with your race.

There are materialistic/lying/skank/jerkoffs of all colors and creeds!

Believe that!
 
Old 02-03-2011, 12:19 PM
 
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Ah! Ms. Carol! You ready to marry me? I dont care what color you are!

oh my wedding gown is at the cleaners... how about tomorrow?
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