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Old 09-04-2012, 07:50 AM
 
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Fake nice is like empty compliments like:

"You're so nice"
"The right one will find you"
"You're such a catch"
"I love you" (but in a funny tone)

You know that tone where it sounds like their voice goes deep then slightly comes up?

Real nice is what they do for you without obligation, just to make you happy once in a while, true genuine nice.
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Old 09-04-2012, 11:52 AM
 
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If a person looks like a *****, they usually are. Simple rule of thumb.
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Old 09-04-2012, 12:19 PM
 
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Yeah, typically, the face gives it away. At the same time, some people are really good actors. Then you have the sociopaths that can fly under the radar so to speak. In my case, I just pick up on certain energies. I can sense when something is not right.
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Old 09-04-2012, 12:35 PM
 
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The person usually ends up speaking really fast or unusually peppers compliments, because they're obviously fake.
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Old 07-21-2013, 07:03 PM
 
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Usually you can tell a store clerk who comes across nice,but you feel their really is no connection,and they are robotic,and drop your change in your hand,so they don't have to touch you.Really nice people are genuine and you feel it,in their warmth,smiles,voice,and a certainly friendliness,that is very real.
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Old 07-22-2013, 12:35 AM
 
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Some people are just extremely nice and are always being sweet, and then you have some people who pretend to be nice/charming and aren't that nice. How do you tell the difference?
You can know more about people when you are in conflict with them. In this situation they show you all sides (light and dark) of their personality.
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