Married women who cheat... (date, family, divorce, looking)
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My GF and I do not believe in marriage. We've been 7 years together (which beats a lot of marriage) and have two children together.
To us, the status doesn't provide more security. Where I live, there are little or no difference between married and common law couple under the law.
So nowadays, people here usually get married just for the ceremony. And since we're both atheists, a ceremony at the city hall seems a bit boring. We prefer to spend money on romantic trips rather than a ceremony.
But this isn't a conversation on our views on marriage. I don't think a ring and some legal papers mean you own someone. That is entirely your interepretation. I wouldn't say my wife belongs to me if I got married. I'm not wired that way, sorry.
A ceremony isn't for bondage but for bonding. Different meanings altogether. But that's something that you can't comprehend and I guess your gf either. If something better comes along for both of you, it's adios and no looking back.
It is potentially destructive behavior. It can destroy relationships and marriages. It can rip apart families and cause mental issue for the children. It can destroy careers and life time achievements. Whether it is self destructive is up to the individual, just like not all alcoholics self destruct.
Absolutely correct. It can devastate children so badly that they either repeat the destructive behavior of the parent or they get into bad relationships when they become adults.
Adultery can ruin many, many lives and not only of the two people involved.
That's what this OP doesn't care about that he can possibly destroy many lives with his behavior.
Personally, I don't support such behavior, but who am I to tell people how to live their lives. That being said, have you ever tried being honest with these women upfront. For men it's sex, for women it's more. The minute she allows you access to the garden, an emotional attachment is formed. A lot of women may say otherwise, but they are lying to themselves. I'm assuming you're not looking for anything serious, so it shouldn't be a problem letting these women know what you're about. Lay it on the line and let them know where you stand and what you expect. Therefore, when you hit and quit, there's no misunderstanding. As for those married women... well....it's there life.
Personally, I don't support such behavior, but who am I to tell people how to live their lives. That being said, have you ever tried being honest with these women upfront. For men it's sex, for women it's more. The minute she allows you access to the garden, an emotional attachment is formed. A lot of women may say otherwise, but they are lying to themselves. I'm assuming you're not looking for anything serious, so it shouldn't be a problem letting these women know what you're about. Lay it on the line and let them know where you stand and what you expect. Therefore, when you hit and quit, there's no misunderstanding. As for those married women... well....it's there life.
Completely agree but in Samuel's world it's not going to happen. He doesn't want to be straight, forward and honest. He likes the naughtiness and sneaking around with the older, married ladies. Gives him another jolt to his jolly!
Personally, I don't support such behavior, but who am I to tell people how to live their lives. That being said, have you ever tried being honest with these women upfront. For men it's sex, for women it's more. The minute she allows you access to the garden, an emotional attachment is formed. A lot of women may say otherwise, but they are lying to themselves. I'm assuming you're not looking for anything serious, so it shouldn't be a problem letting these women know what you're about. Lay it on the line and let them know where you stand and what you expect. Therefore, when you hit and quit, there's no misunderstanding. As for those married women... well....it's there life.
The last married woman who hit on me looked at sex solely as business and said nothing more could possibly happen since she was married. She also said she was in an open-relationship. Then guess what? She got attached and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I said no since she was married!?! Since I said no she hates me now and cut off all communication. I'm the crazy one???
The last married woman who hit on me looked at sex solely as business and said nothing more could possibly happen since she was married. She also said she was in an open-relationship. Then guess what? She got attached and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I said no since she was married!?! I'm the crazy one???
The majority of women get emotionally tied to their sex partner whether they want to admit it or not. That's how women are wired, men are not. She said all these things to get in your pants and maybe she thought she wouldn't get attached but she was fooling herself.
You can say all you want, Samuel, about being confused, innocent and the women are the kooky ones. Whatever floats your boat but in the scheme of things you are part to blame. 50/50.
Nah, in my opinion, the OP just wants to indirectly brag about his actions. It's rather obvious that he already has all the answers to his questions but still asks them as an opportunity to talk about himself and his Don Juan lifestyle.
Now THAT, I will agree with you on. In fact, part of me still wonders if he's posted this thread just to rile people up. He certainly got his wish, didn't he?
Now THAT, I will agree with you on. In fact, part of me still wonders if he's posted this thread just to rile people up. He certainly got his wish, didn't he?
Youre right. I'm bored at work. Thanks for filling my day
Now THAT, I will agree with you on. In fact, part of me still wonders if he's posted this thread just to rile people up. He certainly got his wish, didn't he?
Oh, he's certainly proud of himself that's for sure. He's strutting around like a peacock thinking he's the man...NOT.
But he is young and not only immature but does not rationalize correctly.
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