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Old 02-06-2011, 05:37 PM
 
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He did it again tonight.. claims he forgot about super bowl and just has to watch the game with his family.. after I told my friend I wast going to his superbowl party because I had a real exciting date to go on.. im throwing in the towel and moving on.. the second night this weekend I feel duped and well once again bored because I blew off friennds only to get stood up. Too bad because I really liked him.
I'm glad that you're moving on. He is still in the closet and you would have been a secret and that's not fair to you. You need to date someone that is sure of his sexuality and is proud of who they are.
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Old 02-06-2011, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Richmond va
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I'm glad that you're moving on. He is still in the closet and you would have been a secret and that's not fair to you. You need to date someone that is sure of his sexuality and is proud of who they are.
yeah but why make plans if you just plan on breaking them? Im tired of guys hurting me.. are there any good ones out there anymore!?
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Old 02-06-2011, 06:08 PM
 
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Sure, there are. My brother is in a committed relationship and has been for close to 20 years. Most of the guys that they hang out with have been in long term relationships too.
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Old 02-07-2011, 11:57 PM
 
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Of course not: most people are conniving scum.

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yeah but why make plans if you just plan on breaking them? Im tired of guys hurting me.. are there any good ones out there anymore!?
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Old 02-08-2011, 07:02 AM
 
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He probably made the plans ...but then something better came up,...and it SURE wasn't you!!There are lots of good people out there, but I would try for someone more your age,...at 18 he probably doesn't really know what he wants..
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Old 02-08-2011, 08:14 AM
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Location: MA/NH
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yeah but why make plans if you just plan on breaking them? Im tired of guys hurting me.. are there any good ones out there anymore!?
This guy is too young and immature to be a good boyfriend for you. Try dating someone your own age or older next time.
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Old 02-08-2011, 08:27 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Sounds like he might really like you...especially when you'll keep accepting it when he has plans with you, but then breaks them because he gets a better offer.
You and he are at different stages of life. At 24, you are looking for husband material, but at 18, he is only looking to get ...um, you know.
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Old 02-08-2011, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I think if you are going to date an 18 year old you should be prepared for ANYTHING. Good times. Heartbreaks and things you find immature. At 18 he has no idea what he wants or even who he really is. To be honest I dont think most 18 year olds really know thier own sexual orientation.
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Old 02-08-2011, 08:55 AM
 
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So I was just wanting some advice from some of you all. I seeked the adivce of a good friend of mine and she seemed to be right on track with my thinking. I have been dateing this guy for about 2 weeks now (yeah not a long time at all, so not really serious yet). He is younger than me (18 I am 24) I felt a good vibe with him and we both decided to take it slow because we see potential here. So tonight we were suppose to go out to dinner and then a movie and he waited until about 30 min. before we were suppose to meet to let me know that he was invited to a party with some friends and really wanted to go.. he was sorry and asked if we could hang out tomorrow instead, I told him I had something to do and he said well lets hang out Sunday I am sorry. So do you think he is as intrested in me as I am with him? I was sooooooooo looking forward to this night. I figured I'd give a break the first time he blew me off but maybe just forget about it if it happened again. Could this be the age issue as well? Thanks in advanced!
2 weeks and ditching you... looks like trouble.
I wouldn't go investing more time into this relationship.
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Old 02-08-2011, 10:54 AM
 
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everyone saying he should have taken me to the party with him.. I guess I didnt state this in beginning but we are gay and I dont think he is completely out to his friends yet.. I suppose that could have a lot to do with it too. Thanks again for your input.
i wish someone would do a poll asking who is gay and who is not. from what i've seen in the few months i've been on here i don't think anyone cares or not if someone is gay. but the advice someone gives could be completely different if they know who they're talking to. i think the percentage is fairly high. i'm one who couldn't care less, i've got some important people in my life that are gay. it's a non-issue for me.
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