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Men how do you tell a good women from a bad one?.
If you are part of the rare breed that met an honest, caring, loyal women and you guys have been together for a while how did you score such a gem?
Single guys out there with experience under their belt; what do you look for to tell if a women is with the light or serving the dark side?
What are some tricks, hints, tactics, or plays you use?
Judge them from their behavior and actions, not their words. It's very easy to say what the other person wants to hear, but almost impossible to fake behavior or action.
The only reliable way to tell is time. See how they treat you and others in a variety of situations. Observe them in stressful situations (job loss, death in family, accident, illness). Greediness, selfishness, and form of nastiness towards others is a red flag.
The idea that "He says a women raised with love, a family, has a father figure and brought up strict it plays a big part in if she will turn evil or not." is just an idea - it guarantees nothing! I have a good woman (kind, compassionate, ethical, smart, reliable, humorous, loyal, etc.), and her upbringing was both unconventional and dysfunctional. Some people learn from that how NOT to be.
I'll also add that the ones who repulse their own certainly stand out as being BAD. If other women hate you, guys will listen to them. lol
Seriously? First thing's first. Really come to know the person, and pay far more attention to what that person does than what that person says. After all, EVERYBODY thinks that they're good, unselfish, funny, and a good partner in life. However, their actions will prove to be a far more accurate barometer.
What's more, here's the almost foolproof Waiter Test. Here's how it works: If you are starting a relationship with someone, whether it's personal or business, take that person to a nice restaurant sometime around your third or fourth get-together. The first time is too early, because that person will be on his or her best behavior. By the third or fourth meeting, that person will be more relaxed around you.
Now, watch how that person treats the waiter or the waitress. Because in six months, that's how your dinner companion will be treating you.
How I tell a good woman from a bad one is her conduct. Every woman says she's a great catch but when you observe her over time, the true colors show quite the contrary. I look at a woman's relationships, if she's true to the people in her life then she will be true to me.
Men how do you tell a good women from a bad one?.
If you are part of the rare breed that met an honest, caring, loyal women and you guys have been together for a while how did you score such a gem?
Single guys out there with experience under their belt; what do you look for to tell if a women is with the light or serving the dark side?
What are some tricks, hints, tactics, or plays you use?
Really want to hear from the O.G's on this topic.
I really want this thread to grow with some good Intel so we can help out the other guys on this forum who have trouble like me as well.
Some things my friend looks for is a women's upbringing and how she was raised.
His current girlfriend never cheated on him and he says its just do to her upbringing. She has been with him for 3 years now and she hasn't lied to him once.
Thats astonishing.
He says a women raised with love, a family, has a father figure and brought up strict it plays a big part in if she will turn evil or not.
So what are your views fellas?
Physical signs of a Good woman
- just earrings or very little jewelry
- wears normal generic brand clothes but wears them just right, does not go over the top with things like 4 inch heels, leather, or mini skirts
-wears make up in a way that you don't notice it
- wears a Christian bracelet/necklace that isn't flashy
- has a smooth face b.c does not smoke or let other toxins into her body
- easily smiles
- overall clean appearance
- you really don't even notice she owns a cell phone
Physical signs of a BAD woman
- looks like she's suffocating b.c of the tight jeans she's wearing
- wears 4 inch heels
- wears mini skirts, leather, suits, pants , button down shirts
- wears more than 3 pieces of jewelry all the time
- shows noticeable cleavage even though she's in a relationship
- has wrinkles and she hasn't even hit 35 b.c of smoking, stress
- is noticeably overweight
- is noticeably too skinny
- has tattoos and piercings on tongue/lip/ belly button/ eyebrow/ **** anywhere else except for ears
Physical signs of a Good woman
- just earrings or very little jewelry
- wears normal generic brand clothes but wears them just right, does not go over the top with things like 4 inch heels, leather, or mini skirts
-wears make up in a way that you don't notice it
- wears a Christian bracelet/necklace that isn't flashy
- has a smooth face b.c does not smoke or let other toxins into her body
- easily smiles
- overall clean appearance
- you really don't even notice she owns a cell phone
Physical signs of a BAD woman
- looks like she's suffocating b.c of the tight jeans she's wearing
- wears 4 inch heels
- wears mini skirts, leather, suits, pants , button down shirts
- wears more than 3 pieces of jewelry all the time
- shows noticeable cleavage even though she's in a relationship
- has wrinkles and she hasn't even hit 35 b.c of smoking, stress
- is noticeably overweight
- is noticeably too skinny
- has tattoos and piercings on tongue/lip/ belly button/ eyebrow/ **** anywhere else except for ears
OMG. How shallow and simplistic can you get?
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