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Old 02-06-2011, 03:22 PM
 
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well, my wife and i hooked up at a bar and had drunken sex about 30 minutes after we met. that was 18 years ago this summer.

on the flip side, i have had drunken sex with other women that i don't even remember their names.

there is always a chance for a relationship, but DO NOT pressure him into one just because you already gave it up to him. if it is meant to be, then it will be. if not, then move on and look at it as a fun night.
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Old 02-06-2011, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Ok so need everyones honest opinion. If two people meet at a party and drunkly hookup, is there ever a chance these two people can get together again down the road?

I had drunk sex this weekend and feel really stupid right now; feel as though I really messed up and this guy is going to have no respect for me now.
Why in the world should a guy have any respect for a chick who lets him in her panties within hours of meeting him? The best you can probably hope for is that he'll keep your cell # and call ya up for an occasional booty call once in awhile. So deal with it, you acted like a skank and he's most likely going to think of you as one.
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Old 02-06-2011, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Anything is possible, really. If you find you like each other when you mee and are sober, without the prospect of immediate sex, then it's entirely possible. However, it may be a little awkward at first, until you actually get to know each other a little beyond your prior encounter.
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Old 02-06-2011, 03:41 PM
 
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well, my wife and i hooked up at a bar and had drunken sex about 30 minutes after we met. that was 18 years ago this summer.

on the flip side, i have had drunken sex with other women that i don't even remember their names.

there is always a chance for a relationship, but DO NOT pressure him into one just because you already gave it up to him. if it is meant to be, then it will be. if not, then move on and look at it as a fun night.
Oh wow, did you guys start dating right away after you hooked up or did it take awhile?
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Old 02-06-2011, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Assertiveness is merely standing up for your rights and not letting people take advantage of you. Bullying is maliciously taking advantage of someone or intimidating them just because you are in a stronger position, be it physically, emotionally, or socio-economically.
Personally, I abhor bullies. They are my pet peeve in life. The last time I went to jail was back in 2002 bacause I threw a bully threw a plate glass window on a public street because he was slapping his girlfriend around.
I'd do it again in a heartbeat, and am in fact always on the lookout to put a bully in his place. (Or on his back! LOL).
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Old 02-06-2011, 03:48 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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I sometimes miss college.
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Old 02-06-2011, 05:41 PM
 
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Ok so need everyones honest opinion. If two people meet at a party and drunkly hookup, is there ever a chance these two people can get together again down the road?

I had drunk sex this weekend and feel really stupid right now; feel as though I really messed up and this guy is going to have no respect for me now.
You thought right. This guy has no respect for you. Move on and don't mix drinking and sex. Not with someone you don't know. If you want a fling then drunk sex is right. If you want a relationship, no drunk sex. And don't feel stupid, it happens to most of us, just learn from it and promise not to do it again.
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Old 02-06-2011, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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You thought right. This guy has no respect for you. Move on and don't mix drinking and sex. Not with someone you don't know. If you want a fling then drunk sex is right. If you want a relationship, no drunk sex. And don't feel stupid, it happens to most of us, just learn from it and promise not to do it again.
Do you know the guy she had sex with? How can you be sure he has no respect? Dream on...
The OP should take the opinions of the moralists (like the quote) seriously. They blab their condemnations, but can't back up their opinions. But they love to condemn and give advice.
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Old 02-06-2011, 06:06 PM
 
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Do you know the guy she had sex with? How can you be sure he has no respect? Dream on...
The OP should take the opinions of the moralists (like the quote) seriously. They blab their condemnations, but can't back up their opinions. But they love to condemn and give advice.
Most if not all drunken hook ups are just that. I've had many in my day and they were just that. Hook ups. But there is a possible but very slim of having a relationship after that.
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Old 02-06-2011, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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Most if not all drunken hook ups are just that. I've had many in my day and they were just that. Hook ups. But there is a possible but very slim of having a relationship after that.
You assume much too much, not even knowing the people you assume about. Maybe you need a bit of self-examination first before you baselessly assume about others.
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