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I see what you're saying, but mind blowing sex doesn't have to come from a stripper. I think a lot more people would be miserable if that were the case, but then again, that would explain the clientele at strip clubs, lol.
I know, huh? Yo u can eat something at your favorite restaurant which you just can’t cook and enjoy its taste better than what you cook. Still, it doesn’t mean it makes you grouchy to eat at home something that is not AS tasteful as what you always order in your favorite restaurant. I’ll put it this way. My girl and I can prepare X dish together and enjoy our time like that even though that certain dish tastes way better in our favorite restaurant, still, I rather spend time together with her in the kitchen and on the dinner table, very nice feeling. Does it make sense?
A stripper/dancer may offer way more than any typical girl out there but I prefer my wife, that is, if I was married.
As I said in the thread aforementioned, I have met many strippers over many years who did the job purely to make money to get them through college. No hanky panky there, just the money, honey! I've met board registered physicians and board-certified veterinarians and successful corporate CEO females who are now earning six figures and have admitted to me that they did what they did just to put themselves through school.
STT, didn't I bump into you back in our college days at that Men's Club ? I apologize that all I left was a $1 Bill, after all I was a poor college guy. No need to admit to it here on this public forum. It can be our secret and no one will be the wiser.
Nope, it typically doesn't translate. If you get comfortable around strippers I doubt it translates as well as the converse of that situation. Strip clubs are a fantasy world. As long as the stripper is compensated, she'll fulfill that. She'll hold a conversation with you and act like she's interested until her end is met. Most "civilian" women aren't going to act like they like you for a $20. The interaction is different.
I would debate that. Some social skills, such as conversation or body language, could possibly be learned / honed in the fantasy world and then brought out in the real one. Skill-sets such as those would, I believe, be directly transferable.
But I do agree that the mindset can be different. Even there, though, you have variables: how long has the patron known the stripper? Some of these relationships go on for years, and include visits to the kids, picnics, motorcycle runs, etc. There's a small nuclear "family" that forms in any strip club - if you're a member, you'll get benefits. If you're just stopping by for a beer once a year, no, you won't get those benes.
I know, huh? Yo u can eat something at your favorite restaurant which you just can’t cook and enjoy its taste better than what you cook. Still, it doesn’t mean it makes you grouchy to eat at home something that is not AS tasteful as what you always order in your favorite restaurant. I’ll put it this way. My girl and I can prepare X dish together and enjoy our time like that even though that certain dish tastes way better in our favorite restaurant, still, I rather spend time together with her in the kitchen and on the dinner table, very nice feeling. Does it make sense?
A stripper/dancer may offer way more than any typical girl out there but I prefer my wife, that is, if I was married.
well, I actually love homemade food much more than restaurant food. I'm spoiled in that I was raised on the best Israeli home cooking in the world. Also, everyone I know that can cook...can cook! I do see your point though! Everything is better in good company!
A while back I made my first trip to a Gentleman's Club and was quite shocked with all things that actually happened. Let me start of by saying I am 25 old guy who never really has had a girlfriend before. I have been trying to interact with people and going out to social places like book clubs, volunteer events, and bars. Well one of my friends, who lives far away in San Diego, was saying what I really needed to is visit a strip club. In fact, he suggested a club and finally convinced me this was an experience every guy needed to have. I will admit the thought of seeing hot girls was definitely a turn-on for me.
So I finally dragged myself into the club and find it is a full nude club! That made me sort of nervous but the atmosphere actually turned to be quite different from a normal bar. Last time I went to the bar with my friends, all guys were busy chasing the few hot girls in bar. Here I soon found myself being approached by the hot waitress and of course strippers wanting me to buy dances or buy them drinks. All I had to do was just sit there and strippers would come by and sit on my lap and attempt to flirt! Too bad in real bar the girls aren't like this at all.
Anyhow, the real shocking part was the shady, if not semi-illegal, activities going on in the club. In the back corners you could see ladies giving lap dances to guys who seemed have their pants "loose"! In fact, I actually saw one guy put his hands down there. I finally decided to get a lap dance and the girl convinced me to go the VIP room. I am already nervous having this hot girl alone with me. Then during the 2nd dance she says I should feel free to touch her! I end up just touching her waist and got completely embarrassed. So after that dance I ask to her to stop, pay her and quickly exit club and drive home. To say truth this was a fairly uncomfortable and shocking experience for guy like me.
Of course, after my friend hears this he says I was a complete p**sy for fleeing right when good part started. To say the truth I do feel like I ran away from club a bit too fast from just touching this girl's waist. My friend's solution is to go back to this club or another and this time buy couple more lap dances to see where it goes. The horny part of me definitely want to hit the Gentleman's clubs to check out the hot girls. The other part of me thinks it is bad idea and probably will be an uncomfortable experience. Do guys think I actually go back to one?
Don't go back, sweetie. You can do better than that, and you deserve better than that.
Just remember if you go back...the women love you till you run out of $20's. Gentleman's clubs can be very expensive and it's not the place to look for love.
Go back, take a chill pill, don't judge others and enjoy. They're not hurting anyone and the women supply what the men need (and vice-versa)
Wow... I thought you guys stuck one dollar bills down their thongs ?
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but I'll start working on a routine!
I finally decided to get a lap dance and the girl convinced me to go the VIP room. I am already nervous having this hot girl alone with me. Then during the 2nd dance she says I should feel free to touch her!
I end up just touching her waist and got completely embarrassed. So after that dance I ask to her to stop, pay her and quickly exit club and drive home. To say truth this was a fairly uncomfortable and shocking experience for guy like me.
To say the truth I do feel like I ran away from club a bit too fast from just touching this girl's waist. My friend's solution is to go back to this club or another and this time buy couple more lap dances to see where it goes. The horny part of me definitely want to hit the Gentleman's clubs to check out the hot girls. The other part of me thinks it is bad idea and probably will be an uncomfortable experience. Do guys think I actually go back to one?
