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I cheated on my first husband, he was abusive and sadly I had an affair. Sortly after my affair I finally had enough of being treated like crap and filed for divorce. I later found out that my ex had been cheating on me with the woman he ended up marrying. I regret that I cheated because I would have never thought that would be something I would do, but it also gave me the strength to walk away from a toxic marriage.
I remarried 2 yrs after my divorce, we have been married almost 18 yrs and no I have never nor would I ever cheat on him.
I've been with the same boy (and then man), since we were both 15. Thirty years later, we are still together and neither have cheated. Never even felt tempted to cheat.
And the vast majority of my friends and colleagues I know have never cheated. Anyone who says 75% of married people cheat either hang out in trailer parks or have very trashy, possibly meth-addicted friends.
If you love someone, you're faithful. Nothing more to say.
I'm happy for you. But I am offended by your comment regarding trailer parks and drug addicted friends. Don't even have a clue where that came from??? I happen to live in an upper middle class neighborhood, and am a professional.
I have never cheated..I mean if it comes to that point, I'm no longer going to be with you. No time for drama/games/mystery bs.
I have been cheated on once and he told me straight to my face. It absoutely killed me-I was 21. I ended the 2 year relationship right after. I have a crying heart tattoo over it as I still to this day never truly got over him. She was a piece of Hialeah trash--no where near my league but she was a complete W and so it happened. Actually I just spoke to him the other day for our 4 month catch up deal.
Some people may think this is considered cheating, but I dont
When I was married to my ex, we had legally seperated, we lived in seperate houses, I had a boyfriend, and yes I was with him
But no I dont think its cheating, our marriage was ending.
I dont think you have to wait for the divorce to be finalized to be with someone.
At least in my opinion, if your separated and living apart, then its not cheating. I don't see how your partner would have the right to expect you were not going to live your life under those circumstances.
I've been with the same boy (and then man), since we were both 15. Thirty years later, we are still together and neither have cheated. Never even felt tempted to cheat.
And the vast majority of my friends and colleagues I know have never cheated. Anyone who says 75% of married people cheat either hang out in trailer parks or have very trashy, possibly meth-addicted friends.
If you love someone, you're faithful. Nothing more to say.
Nope, if you are sitting alone at home you will NEVER get cheated on. Anything else is a gamble! Haha
At least in my opinion, if your separated and living apart, then its not cheating. I don't see how your partner would have the right to expect you were not going to live your life under those circumstances.
I don't date women "in between". End it or forget it. If the paperwork is still there, you AREN'T single yet.
But I was cheated on once that I know of (by a former boyfriend). I was so angry that I dumped him on the spot. I didn't want to hear about why he did it--I just wanted him as far away from me as possible. I'd rather just break up than deal with infidelity.
There's nothing to talk about when there's no trust.
That's how I feel too. Cut the string before you go to another relationship.
I'll leave it at that. Never again!! Yes, I was lied to! Don't ever believe a woman who can't keep her story straight about her past or in the works ex.
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Yes, I was lied to! Don't ever believe a woman who can't keep her story straight about her past or in the works ex.
