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Interesting perspective! There are two sides to every story, and I would take the opposite stance and affirm that a woman labeled as sexually confident, would have to be pretty sexually experienced also.
Confident just means she's comfortable with sex and with her sexuality. Someone can be a virgin, but be ready to PAR-TAY!
One thing that has always confused me about men...they say they want a sexy GF. One that loves sex, but not too much. Who can figure men out....it is like they want a slutty GF and a nice one.....you are either one or the other. Very black and white thinking.
Yes....men are taken aback by sexually confident women. Geezzz....I am over 50....many years since I was first kissed..
One thing that has always confused me about men...they say they want a sexy GF. One that loves sex, but not too much. Who can figure men out....it is like they want a slutty GF and a nice one.....you are either one or the other. Very black and white thinking.
Yes....men are taken aback by sexually confident women. Geezzz....I am over 50....many years since I was first kissed..
I don't think threads like this are as relevant to over 50's. Most guys that are my dad's age beg for girl that is promiscuous.
Threatened by a woman who knows what she wants sexually? Let's be serious...any woman so liberated as to enjoy sex for the sake of having sex is a strong, confident woman. A woman I would like to know, because most women seem to be afraid to let their sexual side have a bit of fun. Young men are encouraged to "sow their wild oats", but who are they supposed to be sowing them with? Young women should be encouraged to "sow their own wild oats", same as young men. And like young men,these young women should be made to feel that their sexual liberation is a GOOD thing, a healthy approach to sex, and a much more realistic approach as well. Just because a woman has had several (or many) sexual partners by no means makes her a ****. It does make her a more well rounded individual. It makes her more independent and confident. But she is definitely NOT a ****. Even women who work in the sex trade, movies, escorts, etc...are NOT sluts. They are simply hard working women trying to make their way in the world. Short sighted prejudiced people who are not happy in their own skin usually find fault with others whose lifestyle is a bit different. Different is good. If we all were the same, it would be horribly boring, so rather than condemn a woman who knows what she wants sexually and does her best to fulfill all her desires, she should be celebrated and encouraged to live her life as she sees fit. Just my opinion; I am more open-minded than most men, fortunately.
The only thing that is threatening to me about sexually confident women is that she's probably experienced so many different ways of having sex that I might not be nearly as good sexually as they were. Simple personal insecurity, nothing more.
One thing that has always confused me about men...they say they want a sexy GF. One that loves sex, but not too much. Who can figure men out....it is like they want a slutty GF and a nice one.....you are either one or the other. Very black and white thinking.
Yes....men are taken aback by sexually confident women. Geezzz....I am over 50....many years since I was first kissed..
It's not that hard to figure out. All men like WILD WOMEN. The only difference is she is only wild with ME. It's pretty straight forward and cut and dry. The problem comes in when we have to beg for it for six months, only to get rewarded on our birthday or anniversary. The other problem is she gives us what we want, yet even the mail man gets to enjoy. Don't hold out and don't "spread the love" around. Most men figured that out alone in the first grade.
It's not that hard to figure out. All men like WILD WOMEN. The only difference is she is only wild with ME. It's pretty straight forward and cut and dry. The problem comes in when we have to beg for it for six months, only to get rewarded on our birthday or anniversary. The other problem is she gives us what we want, yet even the mail man gets to enjoy. Don't hold out and don't "spread the love" around. Most men figured that out alone in the first grade.
Believe me, it's the difference between an Amish woman and a stripper. The WILD Amish girl "jumped the fence" when she was 16 and became a stripper!
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