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Old 02-16-2011, 07:10 PM
 
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My ex added me to his facebook; prior to breaking up I asked him why he wouldn't add me and he just wouldn't. Suddenly now that I don't have contact with him he adds me. What do you think of that? Would you delete him?
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Old 02-16-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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yes, delete him.
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Old 02-16-2011, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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My ex-wife tried that. I denied her friend request. She still does't seem to understand that I hate her.
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Old 02-16-2011, 07:47 PM
 
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do him like i did my ex-wife, delete AND block. that way they cannot keep up with you. also double check your privacy settings, it is amazing how many folks have everything 100% open to the public.
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Old 02-16-2011, 09:17 PM
 
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id delete and block and make sure privacy settings are up. Hes gonna snoop on what your doing and nothing good will come of it.
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Old 02-16-2011, 09:20 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Your ex added you because he is curious what you are doing without him. As long as you were together, he didn't need to add you because he got all info from you directly.

Add him, post public how happy you are, you have the time of your life, new boyfriend, whatever - for a few days and then delete him
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:34 AM
 
Location: colorado
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My ex added me to his facebook; prior to breaking up I asked him why he wouldn't add me and he just wouldn't. Suddenly now that I don't have contact with him he adds me. What do you think of that? Would you delete him?

So he wouldnt add you when you two were together, and now your not and he wants too. He cant add unless you approve. So why did you approve?
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:43 AM
 
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My ex added me to his facebook; prior to breaking up I asked him why he wouldn't add me and he just wouldn't. Suddenly now that I don't have contact with him he adds me. What do you think of that? Would you delete him?
I'd quit facebook
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:44 AM
 
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He's checking up on you and seeing what you are doing. block him
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Old 02-17-2011, 10:28 AM
 
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I'd quit facebook
I quit facebook. It is just a waste of time and a source of drama... unnecessary drama that is
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