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Jesus H. Christ. Are you as big a pansy as you sound like? How naive can you be? The guy is a jerk...he's just looking for as much vajajay as he can get. Walk away and slam the door. NEXT!!
LOL, yep!
Though our OP has apparently disappeared and may not be getting all this great advice unfortunately.
Everyone says the same things about ol' "Dyslexic Dave", which we will refer to him as since his actual first name was never divulged. Not ONE person has thought of this or looked at this the way I would look at this! They all say "He's a bad guy for not accepting your breasts as they are" and "He's supposed to be appreciating your mind and accept your breasts at face value" or "He just wants to be with other women because he likes breasts" or WHATEVER... they do not see what I see, which is opportunity!
Obviously "dyslexic Dave" is not the guy for you and your statement "...but I think I can help him" puts you in an awkward position that is not the norm for any good relationship. He is obviously on his way out... but HAVE SOME FUN WITH IT by gosh! You merely need one or two people to help you with this project but trust me, it's worth it.
It goes sort of like this. You have a conversation with "Dyslexic Dave" where you announce, "Well, you are right and seeing other people makes a lot of sense. That's why tonight I am off to entertain Carl (or Jimmy or Jack or Guadalupe Sanchez or whomever you want it to be), so I guess we'll just have to catch up to each other tomorrow or something." You catch up later, the next day or whatever and casually mention, "Whew! That Carl is a real work-horse! Not only that, I am used to your much smaller penis... I didn't even realize they CAME that big! Thank you for suggesting this seeing other people thing though because it's really opened my eyes to all the possibilities in life."
Have an actual "stand-in" for "Carl" who is actually a friend's boyfriend or husband and follow through with perhaps a Bill, a Tom and a Jack, etc. and have some fun with ol' "Dyslexic Dave". You sound quite young, so you have lots of time to jockey around some things until you find a better partner. Don't get mad, smile... get even! ... and have fun doing it...
He and i have such sparks and its easy to be around him.
we love laughing together and being togther.
but he wont stop asking how i would feel if he saw other girls. Not other serious girls just ****ing around type of thing. He has also claimed to be turned off by my small breasts and really hurts my feelings. he was raised in a really ****ty home environment complete with hard drugs and beatings. He is dyslexic. In way im the complete opposite. I grew up in a sheltered environment with my single mother and private school. i feel like i can help him in a way. Its very hard to communicate with him about his feelings somtimes and he needs a while to be able to think about things.
i really want to be with this person, but the stress of dealing with the situation and worrying about my breasts and him wanting to be with other girls just for sex is really weighing down my life. sex is so casual to him. im his first real girlfriend.
My question is: why are you laying down with this guy. Some men complain about a woman's body parts. Hey, your azz, thighs, breast, belly is too big. Really dude. How about you look at your ...
This guy has it made. He's unstable and can't read. He wants to have sex with you and multiple women. Wow!
The next time he mention your breast, ask him to spell it.
Tell him to buy you breast implants if he has such a problem. And afterwards, tell him he has a small penis and that he should consider getting penile implants if he is going to avoid embarrassing himself in front of other women.
Tell him to buy you breast implants if he has such a problem. And afterwards, tell him he has a small penis and that he should consider getting penile implants if he is going to avoid embarrassing himself in front of other women.
NONSENSE! She shouldnt change a thing. He either loves her for what/who she is or he can just go f**k himself! What is the message he is sending? "I will only love you if you get bigger breasts.Your other traits are unimportant to me." That BS and she should fill his food with saltpeter before she sends him packin.
I'd gladly pay $100 into a fund to get the OP's boyfriend a vasectomy.
In 10 years he will be baby daddy to 3 kids on public aid and in jail or otherwise headed nowhere.
$50 here
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