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Actions are always more truthful than words so you need to just accept that his actions seem to be saying that he has other interests. It is nothing personal but throughout our life, some people go and some stay for a while. Spend time on your own interests and take care of yourself first which will then make you more attractive to others. I suspect you are hung up on the relationship you wanted and not the relationship you really had, we've all done that at some time. Be realistic, if this guy wanted you, he would be pounding on your door. Best of luck to you and keep us posted.
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Sometimes (some) people want what they feel is just out of reach and when they get it, they lose interest quickly. You didn't give enough information to say this is what's going on for sure but from what little you said, that's what this reminds me of. It's not a criticism, just something to be aware of as a possiblity.
Sorry to break the news, but he's just not that into you. I've had obsessions with guys also, and believe me, it's not healthy at all. There are other guys out there. Cheer up, and move on.
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[quote=Nite Ryder;18024098]Is there a reason you can't just remain the same girl he first met? Why do you have to act different? If he does like you, he will get around to letting you know. If you are desperate for a date or desperate to be noticed by him go ahead a make the first move, but that might be a turn off for him and an end to all possibilities. Just be your self, and try to be nice.[/quote]
This may be a little off topic but this is probably one reason many women are afraid to approach a guy. On one hand, we hear men complaining women don't approach them enough, on the other, we hear comments like the bolded, which translate to, Only desperate women approach men/make the first move. Make up your minds, guys!
Is there a reason you can't just remain the same girl he first met? Why do you have to act different? If he does like you, he will get around to letting you know. If you are desperate for a date or desperate to be noticed by him go ahead a make the first move, but that might be a turn off for him and an end to all possibilities. Just be your self, and try to be nice.[/quote]
This may be a little off topic but this is probably one reason many women are afraid to approach a guy. On one hand, we hear men complaining women don't approach them enough, on the other, we hear comments like the bolded, which translate to, Only desperate women approach men/make the first move. Make up your minds, guys!
Believe me, a man will approach a woman he's interested in.
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