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Old 03-01-2011, 10:59 AM
 
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Yes, I could, but the question is would I want to? LOL

 
Old 03-01-2011, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL (Northside)
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Make sure that if you go downtown, the streets are clean
 
Old 03-01-2011, 12:24 PM
 
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no, it wouldn't work
 
Old 03-01-2011, 12:51 PM
 
Location: North of the border!
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The ex wouldn't, I would, one of the many reasons she's an EX!
 
Old 03-01-2011, 01:35 PM
 
Location: El Paso, TX
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I would have no problem being in a relationship with someone who didn't like oral sex. Since sex is only a small part of a relationship you will then be able to focus on the other parts to build a stronger and more stable relationship with the other person.
Good answer! Many people concentrate so much on the physical part. Actually, I believe the satisfaction and enjoyment of sex is simply a reflection of the feeling behind that man and the woman, at least those that are looking for a commitment. Those that have sex just to satisfy a need probably concentrate on the physical part I suppose, take care.
 
Old 03-01-2011, 03:49 PM
 
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I don't think so... But how will you find out?

I don't want to ask a woman to do that, I don't have the balls(figurativley speaking) to check that she's ok with that. But really though, I just want to be a gentleman, thats really my ambition. And a gentleman doesn't ask a woman to go down on him, atleast not until marriage or something like that.

But at the same time, the women who do it... do it as a favor, they don't get any enjoyment from it so they have no reason to do it unless I would ask them to(and even then why would they lol).
 
Old 03-01-2011, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Monroe, NC
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I was married to someone like that. Although I was willing to live with it and didn't want my divorce, it did cause arguments.
Did u get it anyway from elsewhere?
 
Old 03-01-2011, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Monroe, NC
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I don't think so... But how will you find out?

I don't want to ask a woman to do that, I don't have the balls(figurativley speaking) to check that she's ok with that. But really though, I just want to be a gentleman, thats really my ambition. And a gentleman doesn't ask a woman to go down on him, atleast not until marriage or something like that.

But at the same time, the women who do it... do it as a favor, they don't get any enjoyment from it so they have no reason to do it unless I would ask them to(and even then why would they lol).
What if this "gentleman" asked AFTER marraige, and she said no. So he wasn't happy in the marraige and went elsewhere for it?
 
Old 03-01-2011, 04:25 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Good answer! Many people concentrate so much on the physical part. Actually, I believe the satisfaction and enjoyment of sex is simply a reflection of the feeling behind that man and the woman, at least those that are looking for a commitment. Those that have sex just to satisfy a need probably concentrate on the physical part I suppose, take care.
show me a couple that has lots of good sex and I'll show you a couple with a good relationship..............sex is important
 
Old 03-01-2011, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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myself and a few guys I work with had this discusion the other day and to my surprise not one of them said this would fly in a LTR.
I would like to here both men and womens opinions on this.
NO, I could not.

I would not consider us sexually compatible and I would move on before we got into bed. I like to have conversations about sex before the act comes up in the relationship.
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