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Old 03-03-2011, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Türkiye
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it probably means that she doesn't like you and don't want to make you have pipe dreams. or she's too shy.

 
Old 03-03-2011, 10:56 AM
 
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She's not playing "hard to get" - she is trying to discourage you from liking her as anything more than just a friend.
She doesn't believe in being just friends.

Because she stopped talking to me when she found out I had a thing for her.

If she believed in being just friends, why didn't we stay friends?

Why did she stop talking to me instead of suggesting we stay friends?
 
Old 03-03-2011, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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She doesn't believe in being just friends.

Because she stopped talking to me when she found out I had a thing for her.

If she believed in being just friends, why didn't we stay friends?

Why did she stop talking to me instead of suggesting we stay friends?
She's uncomfortable around you now that she knows you want more than friendship.

I didn't mean she literally wants to be your friend, I was just saying she was only willing to accept you as a friend before, but now that she knows you like her she wants to completely back away. This stuff happens honey, try not to take it too personally. Her discomfort is on her, not you.
 
Old 03-03-2011, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Her discomfort is on her, not you.
Are you suggesting she should be comfortable if she's "evolved" enough, LM?
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:04 AM
 
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What does it mean when you have a thing for a girl that talks to you, then she finds out from someone else that you have a thing for her and she stops talking to you?
She's not into you.
Thinks you are gossipy.
Thinks you are a wimp for not being more direct with her.
who knows...
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Agreed.
Exactly.
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:06 AM
 
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She's not into you.
Thinks you are gossipy.
Thinks you are a wimp for not being more direct with her.
who knows...
This is what I hate. When girls think I'm a wimp for not being direct with them.

If I told the other guy to let her know I liked her, I admit that would be wimpy.

But that's not what I did. I never asked the other guy to tell her. In fact, I didn't want him to tell her. But he did anyway, so it made me appear wimpy
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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If I told the other guy to let her know I liked her, I admit that would be wimpy.

But that's not what I did. I never asked the other guy to tell her. In fact, I didn't want him to tell her. But he did anyway, so it made me appear wimpy
Well, lesson learned - keep important things to yourself!
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:14 AM
 
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Well, lesson learned - keep important things to yourself!
I wasn't going to tell him. The only reason I told him was because he punched me in the balls for not telling him the first time he asked.

Now that I think about it, there was a time when the same guy told another girl I liked her. You'd think I would of learned my lesson.
 
Old 03-03-2011, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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The only reason I told him was because he punched me in the balls for not telling him the first time he asked.
Is that what you call a "friend"?!
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