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Old 03-04-2011, 10:33 AM
 
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Smart men don't date women with someone on the back-burner either. "A lesson learned in life.......... walk-------respect-------are you talkin' to me"? That's Pantera for all you kidos! LOL
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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It's the ones who start over after Mr. Wrong that makes the difference. If you are dating 5 guys at one time...... PLAYER! Someone is gonna get hurt in that fire. The guys who date women like this are PLAYERS themselves and far from relationship material. They don't want anything but a poke and a good time. I know guys like this. "God, I hope she won't call"!
I'm currently seeing 3 men, call me what you will. They all know I'm seeing other people and after a 6 year long serious relationship it's a breath of fresh air to date around and experience the vastly different personalities. I know I'm nearing the age where I'm going to want to settle down so why not enjoy myself in the meantime??
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Morristown, TN
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I'm currently seeing 3 men, call me what you will. They all know I'm seeing other people and after a 6 year long serious relationship it's a breath of fresh air to date around and experience the vastly different personalities. I know I'm nearing the age where I'm going to want to settle down so why not enjoy myself in the meantime??
^5 I'm glad I'm not the only one. I enjoy myself and they do too or they wouldn't still be coming around, especially with no sex involved. So you go girl!! =)
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:46 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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It's the ones who start over after Mr. Wrong that makes the difference. If you are dating 5 guys at one time...... PLAYER! Someone is gonna get hurt in that fire. The guys who date women like this are PLAYERS themselves and far from relationship material. They don't want anything but a poke and a good time. I know guys like this. "God, I hope she won't call"!
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I'm currently seeing 3 men, call me what you will. They all know I'm seeing other people and after a 6 year long serious relationship it's a breath of fresh air to date around and experience the vastly different personalities. I know I'm nearing the age where I'm going to want to settle down so why not enjoy myself in the meantime??
I dated three guys at the same time too, and for the same reason: I was in a long relationship (5+ years) and wanted to date some different people. I was honest and they all knew about one another--I don't think that made me a player. And none of them were seeing anybody else, so they definitely weren't players. I picked the one I liked best and married him, and we're still married 15 years later, so I'd say he IS relationship material.
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:50 AM
 
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Just don't be surprised when a good portion isn't down with that idea. It seldom works out to the guys advantage. Someone always gets scr*wed!
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:54 AM
 
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It seems to be working out for us just fine, John.
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:56 AM
 
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It seems to be working out for us just fine, John.
Worked for me for years.
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Old 03-04-2011, 10:59 AM
 
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I won't do that to myself anymore. If she "likes" all these other guys, she isn't too into YOU know is she?
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Old 03-04-2011, 11:03 AM
 
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I guess it depends on whether you're the one she picks. Dating is like trying on shoes.
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Old 03-04-2011, 11:09 AM
 
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So what's your term for male players?
Men.
That's not surprising...
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