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Old 03-11-2011, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Have at it, headhunter. Date Asian women and marry one of them and live happily ever after.
, you got it.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:07 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Just one, though. Save some for the others.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Just one, though. Save some for the others.
Hehe, sure would, lots of them in this world you see, too bad I don't see a lot of them where I live, guess it's time to make a move
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Why is it more common for American men and foreign women to connect than vice-versa?

What about the vice versa part? I know a handful of American girls who married or prefer dating foreign men. They either met in college, while teaching or studying abroad, or because the women admitted to having Asian fetish. I think it turned out quite well for them too. The foreign men comprised of people from Arabic countries (forgot the ethnicity) and Spain, some were Chinese, Korean, or Japanese. Some guys got citizenship through their wives.
Interesting!! Never seen this happening anywhere much.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:29 AM
 
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Quoting blogs as a reference for your misogyny is not very intelligent. Do some real research
If it's only American women that are being criticized, how is that misogyny?
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:31 AM
 
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Just one, though. Save some for the others.
Got mine (Asian wife) 33 years ago. BTW, the divorce rate for American women is the highest in the world; go figure.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:33 AM
 
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If it's only American women that are being criticized, how is that misogyny?
They are still women. There are millions of women in the US, it's ridiculous to make a blanket statement that ALL American women are nasty, selfish, etc.

So you meet miserable, mean people in your life, you can't place every women in the same basket.

Men who complain about women tend to have the same unrealistic expectations and attract the very thing they despise. In my opinion it isn't the women who are really at fault, it's the men who choose them.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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They are still women. There are millions of women in the US, it's ridiculous to make a blanket statement that ALL American women are nasty, selfish, etc.

So you meet miserable, mean people in your life, you can't place every women in the same basket.

Men who complain about women tend to have the same unrealistic expectations and attract the very thing they despise. In my opinion it isn't the women who are really at fault, it's the men who choose them.
Never said all American women are like this, however, all American women I have met so far in my 10 years of living in this nation have been like this, overwhelmingly so, I have dated a couple of African American ladies who are very respectful of people without basing their judgments on what their friends considered cool, etc etc, also went out briefly with a Palestinian woman, all of them were very cultural, smart, intelligent. Majority of the women I meet in USA though are what i would call "looking for a quick hangup" type, not relationship material.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:39 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Got mine (Asian wife) 33 years ago. BTW, the divorce rate for American women is the highest in the world; go figure.
Hahahaha, well said, highest for a good reason too, something that blog makes a point about.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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If it's only American women that are being criticized, how is that misogyny?
Being foreign-born myself and having been married to an American-American and to a Hyphen-American, I for one happen to know what most American men seek abroad when they do it deliberately. Those types are not any loss to American women, that's for sure. Unfortunately, I figured that one out a little too late.
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