Am I the only one that enjoys singleness?

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by JustBeingMe404

LOL!!! Forgive me for laughing. That was funny.

Well, I mean... I don't know what you look like but I do know that there's someone for everyone, and there's always someone somewhere who will find you attractive. I also know that grooming and attire can make alllllllllllllllllllllllllll the difference in the doggone world (I'm a personal witness to that one).

I always knew I had a nice body and great hair, but I never really thought I was that attractive. But it seemed the older I got (and the more I cared about how I looked) the more compliments I would get. People actually call me beautiful and gorgeous and hot and all that. I don't see it, but apparently they do. It's usually when I put makeup on and put on nice clothes, hot heels, and do my hair and all that stuff. I guess I'm not a natural beauty, but with a little grooming and a nice wardrobe, I'm enough to whistle at.

We can't do much to change our faces, but we sure can do other things to make ourselves more attractive.

I dress well i guess i doesnt make up for the rest of me

[headhunter18]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I dress well i guess i doesnt make up for the rest of me

If you don't mind me asking this, what's up with your face, I mean, not everyone's face is perfect, some have very thin lips, some have long noses, some have squint eyes, well, everyone has something not so perfect, in fact, there's nothing like perfect, it's just the society or the media which says, oh, this is hot now, so this is being perfect looking etc etc, forget all that, tell me, what do you think is really that wrong with your face.

[JustBeingMe404]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I dress well i guess i doesnt make up for the rest of me

Oh I bet you it does... you just gotta find the lady who is into men who dress well.

Personally, I'm way more attracted to guys for their appearance than for their looks, if you know what I mean. At that initial point of contact, it's all in the way he smiles, the way he dresses, his 'swag', his haircut, his shoes (I'm really into shoes), his facial hair (I can take it or leave it, but I'm a sucker for a well-groomed goatee). I pay a lot more attention to the way he presents himself than I pay to how he looks.

You can't help how you look but you can help how you present yourself.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by headhunter18

If you don't mind me asking this, what's up with your face, I mean, not everyone's face is perfect, some have very thin lips, some have long noses, some have squint eyes, well, everyone has something not so perfect, in fact, there's nothing like perfect, it's just the society or the media which says, oh, this is hot now, so this is being perfect looking etc etc, forget all that, tell me, what do you think is really that wrong with your face.

Big nose long eyebrows

[JustBeingMe404]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Big nose long eyebrows

That's it??? Man please... you just need to find the right lady, that's all. You're not doomed at all.

I thought you had a combination of... well nevermind. I won't say what I thought in case someone else here has those issues.

[headhunter18]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Big nose long eyebrows

Dude, there are lots of people with that, c'mon man, I seriously thought that you might have had something like leukoderma or one of those sad skin conditions, man, you got nothing bro, you are just too hung up on the nose thing, would you be happy to know that a lot of people in this world have either pointed noses, long noses, flat noses, unibrow, etc etc. Besides, long eyebrows aren't necessarily unattractive, much better than a unibrow.

[headhunter18]

Originally Posted by JustBeingMe404

That's it??? Man please... you just need to find the right lady, that's all. You're not doomed at all.

I thought you had a combination of... well nevermind. I won't say what I thought in case someone else here has those issues.

I too think it's just a case of the timing, I thought it was something much worse, like an accident or something like that that could have happened to the face.

[meh_whatever]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Big nose long eyebrows

Wax those brows a little. Some chicks dig long noses.

My hubby has a rather long nose, actually.

Seriously, even if you were one of the fugliest dudes in town, I'd still tell you that you can't sell yourself short.

I've seen some UGLY dudes with moderate to very attractive women.

It happens. Just make sure you've got a successful career.

[headhunter18]

Originally Posted by meh_whatever

Wax those brows a little. Some chicks dig long noses.

My hubby has a rather long nose, actually.

Seriously, even if you were one of the fugliest dudes in town, I'd still tell you that you can't sell yourself short.

I've seen some UGLY dudes with moderate to very attractive women.

It happens. Just make sure you've got a successful career.

And lots of money

[andreaspercheron]

LOL, you know when you're single, everyone thinks something is wrong if you're perfectly content there is no pleasing the masses.... I was single for a long time before my last relationship and really thoroughly enjoyed being single. Like you (OP), friends and family were always thinking I needed to be in a relationship but I was happy and had a great time.

I'm in a different place now and want to be in a relationship hence my decision to be in one..