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First off, both me and my boyfriend of 3 months are Christians. Neither of us want to have sex before we get married. This is a first relationship for both of us, and it is getting fairly serious. We both know what we want and who we are, and we are ready for more commitment than most people would be at our age (23, 24). I'm happy in the relationship and I think things are going great.
My question is about his response to physical contact. I can tell he is attracted to me as his kisses are passionate and he touches me (face, arms, safe stuff like that) very tenderly. However, after a couple minutes of really great (french) kissing he just pulls away, kisses me on the forehead or the side of my face, and leaves. (We never get around to kissing until the end of our dates, even though I would be happy to kiss from the beginning ) I don't understand why he pulls back. I had two thoughts: 1) he genuinely doesn't want to go too far physically or give away too much of himself early on (we're both very committed to waiting) or 2) he's starting to get an erection and he doesn't want me to know. (Or 3), he's not attracted to me, but he's so passionate, tender, and generous that that is difficult for me to believe.)
What can I do to get him to kiss me more? Should I not press up against him when we kiss? Is the fact that he knows how much I enjoy kissing him making it more difficult for him to contain himself, and causing him to stop before I'd like him to? Maybe I'm just so ignorant of male sexuality that I'm making this worse. I'd appreciate any thoughts on the situation! Thanks!
Little Christian Lady...and I use the term very lightly...you're intentionally teasing him. You need to stop. Pick up a Bible or find something else to do at the end of your date.
Call me off, but if they are almost mid twenties why are they acting like 14 year olds?
they are brainwashed by religion to believe what they are doing is wrong. Never mind they follow a book that was written by some dead guys that claimed a higher being told them too. Lets just take their words for it. And even if it were a book of non-fiction, I love how religion cherry picks. Yay religion!
Little Christian Lady...and I use the term very lightly...you're intentionally teasing him. You need to stop. Pick up a Bible or find something else to do at the end of your date.
Smack it with a bible!
Wonder how that will affect his psyche and sense of religion.
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hmmm..
) I don't understand why he pulls back. I had two thoughts: 1) he genuinely doesn't want to go too far physically or give away too much of himself early on (we're both very committed to waiting) or 2) he's starting to get an erection and he doesn't want me to know. (Or 3), he's not attracted to me, but he's so passionate, tender, and generous that that is difficult for me to believe.)
