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Old 03-23-2011, 04:40 PM
 
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No, it's not okay. It just means you have no self control and a problem. If I can do it, then anyone can.

The world makes people think it's normal, while it's not.
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:44 PM
 
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I think most married people (men and women), look at porn. I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever, with two exceptions:

1. They become addicted or are doing it every day
2. They withhold sex from you and restrict themselves to just jerking off over the Internet porn.

I've seen excessive, compulsive porn use in men destroy relationships. They will say to their GF or wife, "Why can't you act like the girls in porn?" I guess they're too stupid to realize these women are acting and are not having 60 O's, but faking it for the camera.

But occasional porn use.... no problem.
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Old 03-23-2011, 04:57 PM
 
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Default Is it ok to watch porn while in a relationship? Reply to Thread

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Would it be consider any lack of interest from your SO?

Is it considered cheating?
Wow, did you open up a can of worms with this one! While it is not my forte, I can hear all kinds of women on this forum answer in the affirmative and say yes it is cheating. But bare in mind, there are all kinds of very jealous people who read this forum, some of them think it is cheating if you look at the opposite sex.
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Old 03-23-2011, 11:21 PM
 
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I think most married people (men and women), look at porn. I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever, with two exceptions:

1. They become addicted or are doing it every day
2. They withhold sex from you and restrict themselves to just jerking off over the Internet porn.

I've seen excessive, compulsive porn use in men destroy relationships. They will say to their GF or wife, "Why can't you act like the girls in porn?" I guess they're too stupid to realize these women are acting and are not having 60 O's, but faking it for the camera.

But occasional porn use.... no problem.
Good point there. I want my women to wear high heels but isn't as common in real life.
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Old 03-24-2011, 03:02 AM
 
Location: locus amoenus
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I think most married people (men and women), look at porn. I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever, with two exceptions:

1. They become addicted or are doing it every day
2. They withhold sex from you and restrict themselves to just jerking off over the Internet porn.

I've seen excessive, compulsive porn use in men destroy relationships. They will say to their GF or wife, "Why can't you act like the girls in porn?" I guess they're too stupid to realize these women are acting and are not having 60 O's, but faking it for the camera.

But occasional porn use.... no problem.
I agree.

Also, I must confess that I find guys who watch porn often somewhat unattractive. I've always preferred men whose libido is heavily based on reality, I guess
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Old 03-24-2011, 02:15 PM
 
Location: USA
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Watching is one thing, but porn is mostly bad for the poor people who work in that industry. Not the "Stars" but the women and men that do it because they have no other choice or are coherced into it by friends or agents promoting it as being a stepping stone in a regular acting job. Then theres the degradation of having to show your private parts up close and personal when you are interviewing for a spot. Many people have to get drunk or high just to do a scene and if your not star material the work is not consistant. In reality you would be better off making minimum wage!
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Old 03-24-2011, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Valparaiso, IN
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There are lots of threads on this already
Lots and lots.
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Old 03-24-2011, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Anchorage, Ak
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It's all good as long as you ask Jesus to forgive you afterwards.
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Old 03-24-2011, 02:27 PM
 
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Why is this being asked? I mean if youre living by the bible, then yes it is not recomended because it links and inordinate sexual appetite with covetousness and idolatry. The one coveting something desires it so much that it becomes the dominant thing in his life, eclipsing everything else. Colossians 3:5

But on the other hand, as a society, we make up our own rules and frown on what the God's word says about how we should treat our minds and bodies. We trust more in what some other man, who is created flesh and bone just like us, than what the one who invented us has to say.
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Old 03-24-2011, 03:22 PM
 
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How about porn while having sex?
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