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Old 03-16-2011, 06:10 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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So, some of you know me from my originial thread where I decided I wouldn't being staying at S/O's while 17 yo daughter was home (he has not liked this, btw)......So my five days in Heaven begins today... S/O's daughter is leaving for the beach with her friends and their parents...so.. my S/O suggested I come and stay with him.

I am so excited to have this time ALONE with him. We don't get alot of time alone, so this is significant.

I'm nervous, and yes I'mm 44, but, I still have nerves and they are not all made of steel. LOL

So what I want to know is what can I do to make this a fantastic weekend, besides be myself an the obvious things..

I was thinking one night, grill some steaks, movies, etc...and of course, Saturday we will get to fish(fav past-time for us both)...

I need ideas, or should I just roll with the punches??
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Old 03-16-2011, 06:23 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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So, some of you know me from my originial thread where I decided I wouldn't being staying at S/O's while 17 yo daughter was home (he has not liked this, btw)......So my five days in Heaven begins today... S/O's daughter is leaving for the beach with her friends and their parents...so.. my S/O suggested I come and stay with him.

I am so excited to have this time ALONE with him. We don't get alot of time alone, so this is significant.

I'm nervous, and yes I'mm 44, but, I still have nerves and they are not all made of steel. LOL

So what I want to know is what can I do to make this a fantastic weekend, besides be myself an the obvious things..

I was thinking one night, grill some steaks, movies, etc...and of course, Saturday we will get to fish(fav past-time for us both)...

I need ideas, or should I just roll with the punches??
roll with the punches, your female mom side is taking over, don't be a mom to him, be a sexy naughty girl, and forget about the other stuff....do what he wants to do...let him take you to dinner....but do not mother him...or play house....be his sex kitten and go out a purchase, some really skimpy little black thing....you both might not have time to do anything else....just remember to lay the mom part of you on the back burner....your not his mother, your his mate....so mate...and find out what he wants to do....it's his home....be his guest, men don't really care....they want and love stimulous....cuddle, kiss his ear...a lot....let the rest fall into place...when you make plans like that, your creating expectations....which a lot of times, ruins a good time...be and allow, spontinuity....don't have any expectations....just go with the flow

Have fun....
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Old 03-16-2011, 06:52 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Excellent advice, I do believe. I feel like calling in for the rest of the week!!

I know the true meaning of "walking on sunshine"
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Old 03-16-2011, 07:07 AM
 
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So, some of you know me from my originial thread where I decided I wouldn't being staying at S/O's while 17 yo daughter was home (he has not liked this, btw)......So my five days in Heaven begins today... S/O's daughter is leaving for the beach with her friends and their parents...so.. my S/O suggested I come and stay with him.

I am so excited to have this time ALONE with him. We don't get alot of time alone, so this is significant.

I'm nervous, and yes I'mm 44, but, I still have nerves and they are not all made of steel. LOL

So what I want to know is what can I do to make this a fantastic weekend, besides be myself an the obvious things..

I was thinking one night, grill some steaks, movies, etc...and of course, Saturday we will get to fish(fav past-time for us both)...

I need ideas, or should I just roll with the punches??
I don't know you from your original thread so I have to ask... why are you not staying with him while his daughter (17 well aware of what happens between consenting adults) is around?
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Old 03-16-2011, 07:30 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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So, some of you know me from my originial thread where I decided I wouldn't being staying at S/O's while 17 yo daughter was home (he has not liked this, btw)......So my five days in Heaven begins today... S/O's daughter is leaving for the beach with her friends and their parents...so.. my S/O suggested I come and stay with him.

I am so excited to have this time ALONE with him. We don't get alot of time alone, so this is significant.

I'm nervous, and yes I'mm 44, but, I still have nerves and they are not all made of steel. LOL

So what I want to know is what can I do to make this a fantastic weekend, besides be myself an the obvious things..

I was thinking one night, grill some steaks, movies, etc...and of course, Saturday we will get to fish(fav past-time for us both)...

I need ideas, or should I just roll with the punches??
I say roll with it. He probably has some special things in mind, so let him treat you. Some special bedroom attire may be in order, though! Enjoy!
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Old 03-16-2011, 07:34 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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excellent advice, i do believe. I feel like calling in for the rest of the week!!

i know the true meaning of "walking on sunshine" :d
lol....
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Old 03-16-2011, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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I don't know you from your original thread so I have to ask... why are you not staying with him while his daughter (17 well aware of what happens between consenting adults) is around?

I would link the thread, but don't know how yet....It's too much to explain...All worked out now, but, still sticking to my guns.
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Old 03-16-2011, 08:15 AM
 
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cremebrulee has good advice,....be spontaneous!
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Old 03-16-2011, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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In the words of Steve Winwood.....come on, Roll With It Baby..........
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Old 03-16-2011, 08:38 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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I say just go with it.
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