confused! (marriage, man, husband, call)

[msyoung2011]

Is it wrong for me to be worried about my husband going out to the club routinely at least two to three times a week and staying out until 2 or 3 am? He says he just hanging out and talking to friends.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by msyoung2011

Is it wrong for me to be worried about my husband going out to the club routinely at least two to three times a week and staying out until 2 or 3 am? He says he just hanging out and talking to friends.

I think you know in your heart that this is not how a good husband behaves.

The real question is, what are YOU going to do about it?

[the old man]

you have to ask??

[NY Annie]

Have you told him it bothers you? Have you asked him why he cannot bring those friends home?

Have other things changed at home?

[STT Resident]

I agree. It's not wrong at all for you to be worried. That is NOT normal behavior at all and reeks like a decaying fish. Even without knowing how long this has been going on and what your marriage is like otherwise, suggest you sit down with that man for a good heart to heart chat. Good luck!

[WFW&P]

You can talk in a club?

[onihC]

How about going with him and call it a late night date/activity as a couple? Maybe as an out-of-routine activity.

[NY Annie]

Originally Posted by WFW&P

You can talk in a club?

of course - but no one can hear you. So talker thinks s/he is brilliant!

[donie1]

Go to the club unexpectedly and you'll find out why he's there. You have a gut feeling something is wrong and you're right.

[TaoistDude]

Go with him. Or go a couple of hours later. After that, you'll probably know what to think and do.