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Old 03-19-2011, 12:54 PM
 
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Yeah that's excessive. I would call those people whores/manwhores lol because they only do it for enjoyment...
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Old 03-19-2011, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Containment Area, NC
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That is a lot of free time. And do people really keep track like that? After a point, isn't it just ... "Uhh, a lot"?
LOL! Yeah. IDK how anyone could remember, unless they were keeping score.
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Old 03-19-2011, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Containment Area, NC
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Yeah that's excessive. I would call those people whores/manwhores lol because they only do it for enjoyment...
Aside from babymaking and marital/relationship closeness, is there any other reason?
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Old 03-19-2011, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Containment Area, NC
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I wonder why some women find this behavior so repugnant, and what about the other way around, would you men be with a woman that have had 200+ partners?

Some guys hire hookers. I'm thinking dudes don't mind so much if it's strictly sex. To date and/or marry? Whole different story.
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Old 03-19-2011, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Containment Area, NC
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I am really glad that you are. You seem like a mature person, and took it well.

Right now, I am not sexually active (but for merely practical reasons) but I would have that conversation before in a way that my partner would not know it is a deal breaker. If he admits to something like that HELL no ... I would not sleep with him.

You took it very gracefully. Congrats !
Yanno? It really freaked me out when he told me. I guess I appreciated that we had been dating for a little while (no sex yet) and he told me so I'd have a choice. I respected that. The fact the he had clean, recent tests in hand was also helpful.

I guess I thought he couldn't carry on a monogamous relationship, maybe?

Turns out, he never slept around. And I never felt like he was always wondering if he had missed something before we got married.

When we were going through our separation and divorce (very amicable), *I* was actually the first to start dating again. He said he just didn't want sex or a woman expecting him to get involved again too soon.

He couldn't have kids. I rather wish I'd had kids with him instead of my 2nd husband. My 2nd husband and I pretty much loathe one another now.

It would be so much easier to have had kids with someone I LIKED after the divorce.

Oy.
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Old 03-19-2011, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Guangzhou, China
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I quit counting after 20-ish. I really have no idea at this point; I've sat down and thought about it, come up with a concise number, and then an hour later when I'm at Taco Bell, I see a girl that reminds me of someone I slept with in '06 I'd forgotten about.

The thing is that, generally, I've discovered that if you have the sort of personality that allows you to have sex with dozens of people, you most likely don't view it with the same earth-moving sentimentality as someone who slept with, say, two or three people. Not only is it the sheer volume that makes it hard to keep track of, it's also the fact that it's just plain not as big a deal.

When I hear a guy say that he's slept with exactly 100, 150, 200, whatever women... I don't believe it.

Hell, I've had sex with some women that I forgot about for a reason...
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Old 03-19-2011, 01:21 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I quit counting after 20-ish. I really have no idea at this point; I've sat down and thought about it, come up with a concise number, and then an hour later when I'm at Taco Bell, I see a girl that reminds me of someone I slept with in '06 I'd forgotten about.

The thing is that, generally, I've discovered that if you have the sort of personality that allows you to have sex with dozens of people, you most likely don't view it with the same earth-moving sentimentality as someone who slept with, say, two or three people. Not only is it the sheer volume that makes it hard to keep track of, it's also the fact that it's just plain not as big a deal.

When I hear a guy say that he's slept with exactly 100, 150, 200, whatever women... I don't believe it.

Hell, I've had sex with some women that I forgot about for a reason...
Good post. I agree.

If you out banging that many women, then of course sex isn't that big of an earth moving experience.

I've done the same sort of thing, I go and count them up and then I'll remember another one.

I've been in a LTR for a long time, so I haven't been with that many women.....
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Old 03-19-2011, 01:59 PM
 
Location: So. of Rosarito, Baja, Mexico
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Bad sex or Good sex?

Bad sex is when the girl is chewing gum says "Are you done yet?"

Good sex is when the girl is moaning and breathing hard and says "I love you".

Do think some men have had those experiences more then once.
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Old 03-19-2011, 02:00 PM
 
Location: earth?
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I find it sad that apparently to many people sex is simply a sport. Not much more evolved than rodents.

To some people, sex is sacred . . .to ONLY be shared with someone you truly know and love.
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Old 03-19-2011, 02:01 PM
 
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But if you eat at Taco Bell, I guess you don't appreciate quality, so that kind of explains it.
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