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Old 03-18-2011, 02:59 PM
 
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So I don't know if anyone here watches Tosh.0 or knows who Daniel Tosh is, but he's a pretty offensive comedian. Hilarious, I love him, but he definitely has no boundaries.

Yesterday, my husband was having what he called a "Daniel Tosh" day. He was being an a**hole all day, and was home almost all day because he had a dentist appointment in the morning. (His job is in oil drilling, they're out on a job right now that's 2 hours away so he had a replacement fill in yesterday giving him the day off since he wouldn't be able to get out there at the start time.)

For the first few hours I just ignored most of what he said because I was exhausted (our daughter has a cough that keeps her up most the night, I've been the one staying up with her which is fine - but I'm hardly sleeping) and I just couldn't make the effort to get upset. He knew he was being rude/obnoxious but didn't stop.

I took a nap in the afternoon, only about 20 minutes, but I felt a lot better afterwards. After my nap his attitude got WORSE. I made a healthy homemade dinner which he hated (it took me about 2 hours to make as well), I like sports (he doesn't) and it's March Madness right now. I let him know that I wanted to catch the USU game which was on late because I'm from the area. He whined and nagged until I came to bed, though, because I was picking the game over him. (At that point I WANTED to pick the game over him.)

What are you supposed to do in these situations? He's well aware that his behavior was childish and irritating, he knew he should stop acting like he was but he didn't. He said he was sorry... but if he was sorry he would have stopped acting like that. I can understand having an off day, but he just laughed and smiled the whole time he was acting like a jerk even though he knew he was ticking me off.
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Old 03-18-2011, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Don`t worry.....he is going back to work!
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Old 03-18-2011, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Did you actually call him out on it?
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Old 03-18-2011, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If it is a couple times a year occurance, I'd let him get a away with it and give in to the unreasonable demands.

If it happened much more than that not so much. If he accused me of picking the game over him I'd be like "damn straight. You're being miserable. I'll spend time with you when you start behaving like an adult"
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Old 03-18-2011, 03:24 PM
 
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Did you actually call him out on it?
Ya, he just didn't care. He knew how he was acting and just didn't care.
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Old 03-18-2011, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Male version of PMS? Try chocolate.
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Old 03-18-2011, 04:28 PM
 
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Male version of PMS? Try chocolate.
Lmao... I may do that. I already made chocolate chip cookies seeing if that would help today.
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:07 PM
 
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So I don't know if anyone here watches Tosh.0 or knows who Daniel Tosh is, but he's a pretty offensive comedian. Hilarious, I love him, but he definitely has no boundaries.

Yesterday, my husband was having what he called a "Daniel Tosh" day. He was being an a**hole all day, and was home almost all day because he had a dentist appointment in the morning. (His job is in oil drilling, they're out on a job right now that's 2 hours away so he had a replacement fill in yesterday giving him the day off since he wouldn't be able to get out there at the start time.)

For the first few hours I just ignored most of what he said because I was exhausted (our daughter has a cough that keeps her up most the night, I've been the one staying up with her which is fine - but I'm hardly sleeping) and I just couldn't make the effort to get upset. He knew he was being rude/obnoxious but didn't stop.

I took a nap in the afternoon, only about 20 minutes, but I felt a lot better afterwards. After my nap his attitude got WORSE. I made a healthy homemade dinner which he hated (it took me about 2 hours to make as well), I like sports (he doesn't) and it's March Madness right now. I let him know that I wanted to catch the USU game which was on late because I'm from the area. He whined and nagged until I came to bed, though, because I was picking the game over him. (At that point I WANTED to pick the game over him.)

What are you supposed to do in these situations? He's well aware that his behavior was childish and irritating, he knew he should stop acting like he was but he didn't. He said he was sorry... but if he was sorry he would have stopped acting like that. I can understand having an off day, but he just laughed and smiled the whole time he was acting like a jerk even though he knew he was ticking me off.
Sorry the SO is being a PITA. But I just LOVE Tosh!
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:11 PM
 
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Sorry the SO is being a PITA. But I just LOVE Tosh!
Me to! He's so funny, and my husband can be really funny too. But after a few hours it just becomes irritating.
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:13 PM
 
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Me to! He's so funny, and my husband can be really funny too. But after a few hours it just becomes irritating.
Yeah, I agree. Too much of a good thing is no longer a good thing.
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