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Old 03-24-2011, 05:13 PM
 
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No not exactly, I was presenting an "ideal" situation. That was the point. Barring all other factors and the other woman was doing all the "touching", not "would you say yes?" it was "would you be tempted to say yes?" If you would be tempted it doesn't mean you're "bi-curious" It just means you aren't repulsed.
Oh, okay. No, I wouldn't be tempted, either. HTH.

Also, one can be not tempted without being repulsed. For me, it just doesn't compute. I don't have to feel repulsed; having a woman touch me in that way (under any circumstance) simply isn't something my body can figure out as a necessity in any way, shape or form. It just...doesn't make sense to my body and my psyche.

But I don't think there's anything wrong with women who are "tempted" or who "do"...that's their thing like my thing is mine.
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Old 03-24-2011, 07:05 PM
 
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True, if you're not seeking such a situation the likelihood of it happening very low. However I've had man (I'm a guy if you haven't noticed) extend me such an offer in a similar situation. My answer was "no."
Well, now that I think about it, if some random hot guy offered me the same thing my answer would probably also be no... I'm too risk averse... just don't like to "do stuff" with people I don't have an emotional bond with or know well. The only way it would change is if some woman and I got into a longterm relationship.
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Old 03-24-2011, 07:30 PM
 
Location: NH
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Well, now that I think about it, if some random hot guy offered me the same thing my answer would probably also be no... I'm too risk averse... just don't like to "do stuff" with people I don't have an emotional bond with or know well. The only way it would change is if some woman and I got into a longterm relationship.
Fair enough, although a tryst with a women would most likely have fewer strings attached. If you told your man that you had intimate contact with another woman he'd probably jump you rather than get mad. Although I can understand the feeling of a need for commitmemt before engaging in any sexual activity.
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Old 03-25-2011, 03:05 PM
 
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Fair enough, although a tryst with a women would most likely have fewer strings attached. If you told your man that you had intimate contact with another woman he'd probably jump you rather than get mad. Although I can understand the feeling of a need for commitmemt before engaging in any sexual activity.
No, to my man cheating is cheating. We have talked about this, and he thinks being with anyone other than him is being unfaithful. He also said it would mean that he couldn't satisfy me.
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Old 03-25-2011, 03:11 PM
 
Location: NH
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No, to my man cheating is cheating. We have talked about this, and he thinks being with anyone other than him is being unfaithful. He also said it would mean that he couldn't satisfy me.

I guess you two are a very good fit then
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Old 03-25-2011, 03:27 PM
 
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I guess you two are a very good fit then
Thanks. So far, things are going well.
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Old 03-25-2011, 04:12 PM
 
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I take a water aerobics class and it's mostly ladies. So I guess I'm taking a dip in the lady pond.
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Old 03-25-2011, 10:39 PM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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I'm a gay man and I confess I took a few dips in the lady pond; it was very nice indeed! I must confess, however, I still prefer the man stream.
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Old 03-25-2011, 10:47 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm a gay man and I confess I took a few dips in the lady pond; it was very nice indeed! I must confess, however, I still prefer the man stream.
LOL, that's cool

Based on what you've posted before, you're alright with me.......
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Old 03-25-2011, 10:49 PM
 
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With or without a snorkel?
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