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Old 03-22-2011, 04:22 PM
 
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I have/will date women with a kid, but you are right, when it starts looking like she wants it more serious I call it quits..........


I do move on.
Well in my case the guy had long disappeared and NO SUPPORT was available. Hmmmm??? At 24 I realized just how STUPID I was!
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:24 PM
 
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One good thing about getting into the 40's is if you stick to your age group the women often have their kids already grown and out on their own or close to it.
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:27 PM
 
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One good thing about getting into the 40's is if you stick to your age group the women often have their kids already grown and out on their own or close to it.
Well, I haven't dated a gal with kids since. 24 was quite awhile ago!
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:32 PM
 
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Hell yes, some of these "girls" I've seen latley have three kids and can't be a day over 22. Good luck with that!

The crap you see on a show like Jerry Springer isn't all made up, a lot of that s*** is real.

And any guy who take that on in a serious relationship because she is young and hot and she gives it up good for him is a fool. I'd say there is a fair chance that when the kids are grown and he has built her up when she turns 40 she'll bail on him to go chase a single life and he is left alone.
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:33 PM
 
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Why? I want my own kids and can't afford 5.
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:35 PM
 
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Well, I haven't dated a gal with kids since. 24 was quite awhile ago!

The problem is in your late 20's and specially your 30's and even in your 40's there is a 90% chance she does have a kid/kids and it is usually the same story "I was with him for years but finally had enough and left". Well what took you so long to make up your mind? "Oh but I really loved him and he is the daddy of my child afterall". Now tell me that isn't depressing?
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:39 PM
 
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The problem is in your late 20's and specially your 30's and even in your 40's there is a 90% chance she does have a kid/kids and it is usually the same story "I was with him for years but finally had enough and left". Well what took you so long to make up your mind? "Oh but I really loved him and he is the daddy of my child afterall".
Well, I know a bunch that were probably hurt from that damn spinster thread. Little do they know the others are sucking dust!
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:39 PM
 
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The problem is in your late 20's and specially your 30's and even in your 40's there is a 90% chance she does have a kid/kids and it is usually the same story "I was with him for years but finally had enough and left". Well what took you so long to make up your mind? "Oh but I really loved him and he is the daddy of my child afterall". Now tell me that isn't depressing?
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Good Ol' San Antonio
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What was wrong with her attitude? Sincere question..
I would like to know the answer to that one as well. How am I/was I being a princess?
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Old 03-22-2011, 04:46 PM
 
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you want the truth or some sugar coated pat on the back? It will be tough. As the man won't be just with you, he will be with your kids, and of course the father who will always be around . Its much better to start fresh
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