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Old 03-26-2011, 10:40 PM
 
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"she got right next to me she loudly said, "he knows how to lie very well, like MOST men do"..........I did not look up nor give her the reaction she was expecting but she certainly seemed "sour".
I was thinking---I wonder if she'll take that into her next "relationship"."

I would wager that she will put the next guy through the wringer. It's unfortunate that some men & women cannot let go of the disappointments relationships subject us to on occasion.

This site and a few others have opened my eyes to how many embittered male souls are out there as well. I suppose it is up to an individual's ability to cope with adversity which have little to do with their sex IMO.
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Old 03-26-2011, 10:50 PM
 
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Both men and women seem to be bitter if their ex treated him/her badly. On CD it seems there are more men that have either not been able to find a relationship or been treated badly. In real life it seems about equal.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:23 PM
 
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we have all been there. i recall when my parents fought as a kid, my dad would storm out of the house and my mother would pin all that man drama on me. I'd walk in the kitchen and she would be like, "all you men do is take take take"etc
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:31 AM
 
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I was hurt once and then decided I had chosen the wrong type of man, after that I went on to become a great girlfriend to other great guys. Then I met a guy I thought was really nice and moral, and he was not. He started ignoring me after he met someone new that was an acquaintance, and then he did a 180 so he would get rid of me. It was heartbreaking and it scarred me cause now I wonder if there are actual good men out there or if they are all just pretending to be good. In the end I guess I still believe that good men exist, like good women do, just very, very few and far between.
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Old 03-27-2011, 02:34 AM
 
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Most neurotic behaviors are the result of traumatic experiences occuringg before age 8. There are exceptions of course, such as persons who have survived a fire, or been seriously assaulted, etc. But, the kind of thing you are talking about? Blame mom and dad.
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Old 03-27-2011, 05:08 AM
 
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I was hurt once and then decided I had chosen the wrong type of man, after that I went on to become a great girlfriend to other great guys. Then I met a guy I thought was really nice and moral, and he was not. He started ignoring me after he met someone new that was an acquaintance, and then he did a 180 so he would get rid of me. It was heartbreaking and it scarred me cause now I wonder if there are actual good men out there or if they are all just pretending to be good. In the end I guess I still believe that good men exist, like good women do, just very, very few and far between.
So that would explain why you are such a *****?
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Old 03-27-2011, 05:10 AM
 
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Most neurotic behaviors are the result of traumatic experiences occuringg before age 8. There are exceptions of course, such as persons who have survived a fire, or been seriously assaulted, etc. But, the kind of thing you are talking about? Blame mom and dad.
Or try because the parents did not discipline their kids. That is the cause for neurotic behavior.

So its bs what you are saying. It is simply not true, everyone goes through bad experiences that is a part of life. So this whole before a certain age, blah blah that psychologists believe is pure crap.
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Old 03-27-2011, 05:12 AM
 
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So that would explain why you are such a *****?

I am such a ?

I had no idea you thought I was a *****.

In any case, no, I've always been myself pretty much without the help of any man. But your comment is pretty weird since I don't even talk to you, lol.
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Old 03-27-2011, 05:17 AM
 
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I am such a ?

I had no idea you thought I was a *****.

In any case, no, I've always been myself pretty much without the help of any man. But your comment is pretty weird since I don't even talk to you, lol.
Did you give me a rep point, but instead of doing it through a member you did it through a non-member? Sheez, ashamed a bit that you agree with me
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Old 03-27-2011, 05:19 AM
 
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Did you give me a rep point, but instead of doing it through a member you did it through a non-member? Sheez, ashamed a bit that you agree with me
Haha, sounds like someone else agrees with you. But not me, lol. You're starting to sound like Derrick Morris who is always fantasizing about me. Ah well, it happens.
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