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Old 03-26-2011, 07:57 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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"I am CELIBATE until marriage" because of religious and moral beliefs.

Guys: What do you do?
Ask her if she has any hot friends, that aren't celibate until marriage.
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Old 03-26-2011, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Well, since I'm not religious and I think sexual compatibility is important - I'd move on. However, I'm not the one in that situation. You have to do what you think is right for you.
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Old 03-26-2011, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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Still willing to be friends and all that, but it's not likely I will be as romantically interested in her as I could be.

Besides, saving oneself for marriage is usually a behaviour associated with religious/spiritual beliefs, and I am not religious. It's an indicator that we may have some glaring incompatabilities.
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Old 03-26-2011, 09:05 PM
 
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I'm great with celibacy, but she really has to be celibate.

We can't have a mysterious virgin mary in our family.

and I hope they aren't newly celibate & just finding religion after a dark period in their life where they were very un celibate.
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Old 03-26-2011, 10:18 PM
 
Location: NH
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I'm great with celibacy, but she really has to be celibate.

We can't have a mysterious virgin mary in our family.

and I hope they aren't newly celibate & just finding religion after a dark period in their life where they were very un celibate.

yeah gotta love those "born again virgins"
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:04 PM
 
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LOL, so it would make a difference if the Celibatee is a "true" virgin vs "born again"? Why?
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:06 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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"I am CELIBATE until marriage" because of religious and moral beliefs.

Guys: What do you do?
For religious belief, I'd leave her. For moral beliefs I'd stick around and see where it goes...
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:13 PM
 
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I'm in the camp with sexual compatibility being a major part of a relationship. Took me a divorce after 7 years of marriage to figure that one out.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:18 PM
 
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i plan on getting married if i ever do after 10 years.. that will be alot of waiting, and what if we break up in that 10 year period.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:52 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Tell them, "Have a nice day!" and politely leave, never to have affiliations with them ever again and wishing them all the best in their various endeavors in life on my way out the door as they are obviously not the woman for me...
Yeah, but she's NOT a used car!!!!

She's new!!!!
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