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This has happened to me, and the frustrating part is that they dont believe you when you tell them you arent into them that way either. They think you are just trying to save face..
Yep... again, in the situation I was in, I was currently involved with a girl whom I was very into, and basically everyone knew this. When I defended myself, she didn't really argue back or accuse me of trying to "save face," she just said something to the effect of "well, you need to understand I'm not into you at all and am not attracted to you etc etc" all over again.
And I'm sorry, but even on a friendly level... although I don't expect a female friend to tell me that I'm "hot" or anything (we're friends), but repeatedly telling me that I'm "not attractive" to her is pretty damn rude. It showed me a face of that friend that I wasn't aware of and didn't appreciate.
I have a question. Every time a guy hits on me or tries to flirt, I get really pissed off.
What's wrong with me? It really ruins my inner peace and I wish I could just wear a sign that says "if you are looking for anything more than friendship, then back off"
I'm sending all these negative vibes and attention from any guy really stresses me out. There was this guy in one of my classes - goodlooking but he just would not shut up and I was trying to pay attention to the coursework.
HOw can I become a more pleasant and kind person? How can I better handle these situations? I think I just brutally crush/offend guys who try to be nice and it's not that I want to.... but I try to make myself clear..... And I hate being in that situation.
Like laughing at a guy's stupid jokes that are not funny to not hurt his feelings (done that, it gets tiring)
Going off on someone because he suggested that we have a lot in common
Really I am on a roll.
I think it might be b/c I like someone else and right now is not a good time for me to get into these things anyway.... How can I send this message out loud and clear?
Did I ever mention that I wanted to become a nun when I was little? I don't know why, I just knew I loved God. But then decided against it when I graduated from high school, cause I realized that the nunnery was about serving the priest and the elders, instead of God. I only wanted to serve God and sing praises to God, not some lowly human. Besides, I'm not the religious type, nor Cathoholic (intentional misspelling).
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