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Old 03-29-2011, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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This sounds childish. Most men are only checking out your woman. Nothing more. If your mate is attractive, then you'll have this problem. No big deal. Like another poster said, hold her hand, pull her close or hand on lower back.

It's the same as women checking out your guy. Hand in his or pat his behind. They'll get the message. Move along ladies.
Yes, but I was thinking that the OP was describing a situation where they start passing perhaps some lewd comments, etc etc, also, the majority of the people would never get into a fight either, they just put a show of being a tough guy, and when you give it back to them with an attitude that you wouldn't mind giving them a tight kick or two, most of them would just back off, again, this is only when the ogling gets to a physical part, if they are just ogling without saying anything, nothing to be concerned about.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:43 AM
 
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Actualy, many guys like that, it means they've got a hot chick.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Yes, def just take her hand or lean in for a sweet kiss on tha cheek, smile and think to yourself "eat your heart out"....

It actually happens alot to me, girls checking out my man, he is (Ithink n e way) a might more handsome than I am pretty, so, I just smile at them and hold him close...move on ladies this ship has sailed. haha!!
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Old 03-29-2011, 11:12 AM
 
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Was just wondering, as this happened last night.

Of course the logical thing is ignore them and move along, but at the moment, you want to grill them back. It really irritates me with the lack of respect people have checking out my girl right in front of me.

What do you do when a group of guys, in my case younger thugs are in front of you looking back at you and your girl. What do you guys usually do, stare back at them, ask what they are looking at, or just ignore them, wait if they get confrontational.
It's always a good idea to challenge a group of guys because they happened to look at your girlfriend.

What are you 15?
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Old 03-29-2011, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Hudson County, NJ
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It's always a good idea to challenge a group of guys because they happened to look at your girlfriend.

What are you 15?

No, its not just about the staring. I was more concerned if things get to more than just looking, words start going, lewd comments. Who really wants to just back down and ignore them. And believe me, the comments were on the verge of being said.
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Old 03-29-2011, 12:56 PM
 
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No, its not just about the staring. I was more concerned if things get to more than just looking, words start going, lewd comments. Who really wants to just back down and ignore them. And believe me, the comments were on the verge of being said.
So what?

What are you going to do about it? Start a fight and get your gf beat down in the process? Maybe shot or stabbed?

ESPECIALLY if you have your gf with you or when you get older and are out with your kids etc you need to be smart about not escalating stuff and dragging others down because of your own ego. If you want to go back looking for the guys later and get shot by some loser then that's your decision.
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Old 03-29-2011, 12:58 PM
 
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I might whisper something naughty in her ear and then kiss her when she looks at me.

really depends on what kind of mood I'm in at the moment.
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Old 03-29-2011, 01:01 PM
 
Location: PORT ANGELES, WA
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I'd smile at them then put my arm around her, maybe grab her ass in front of them. Shove it in their face that you get to go home with her


wink at them, and lay a big fat juicy kiss on her!
Why bother thinking about confronting them, girls don't like that.. You would totally ruin the night..

How does she dress in public??
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Old 03-29-2011, 01:11 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by nowitsshowtime View Post
Was just wondering, as this happened last night.

Of course the logical thing is ignore them and move along, but at the moment, you want to grill them back. It really irritates me with the lack of respect people have checking out my girl right in front of me.

What do you do when a group of guys, in my case younger thugs are in front of you looking back at you and your girl. What do you guys usually do, stare back at them, ask what they are looking at, or just ignore them, wait if they get confrontational.
You look at them at do this..."...hold your head up high, smile, and give them the "toodles" sign!

Some boys and some men have very low respect of a good looking woman. Usually they will act like a dog in heat! It is embarrassing!
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Old 03-29-2011, 01:20 PM
 
Location: NH
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People have eyeballs and are free to look at anything they want.

People have mouths and can say whatever they want.

People have hands and must keep them to themself.

When looking is only looking you do nothing.

When talk is only talk you do nothing.

When looking and talk becomes touching you act.

I second Lucky's comment.

People usually wait till I'm not around to oogle at my wife. The ones that do check her out while I'm around try to do it discretely.
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