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View Poll Results: Women what are some of the biggest turnoffs you find in a man?
Bad teeth 10 12.82%
Bad breath 14 17.95%
Acne 1 1.28%
Dirty fingernails 4 5.13%
Chapped lips 2 2.56%
Ragedy clothes 1 1.28%
Bad shoes 1 1.28%
Wolverine beards 3 3.85%
Corny jokes 1 1.28%
Stale conversation 9 11.54%
Out of shape 5 6.41%
Balding or bad hairstyle 0 0%
Broke 9 11.54%
Other 18 23.08%
Voters: 78. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-06-2011, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Talking too much. I was on a date and he talked the entire time. The only words I said were, yes, not really, not sure. He dropped me and I said, good night.

I didn't see him again.
Or the opposite. I went out with this guy who asked me out - and he barely said one word the entire time. I tried to keep talking just so we weren't sitting in utter silence. It was so AWKWARD!!! Then he told me later that I sure talk a lot. I was thinking - well, if you don't open your mouth the entire time, what am I supposed to do!!! I didn't want to see him again - but he woke me up first thing the next morning and said he needed to see me again. It was one of the strangest experiences. At least I got a good story out of it!
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Old 04-09-2011, 11:50 AM
 
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Or the opposite. I went out with this guy who asked me out - and he barely said one word the entire time. I tried to keep talking just so we weren't sitting in utter silence. It was so AWKWARD!!! Then he told me later that I sure talk a lot. I was thinking - well, if you don't open your mouth the entire time, what am I supposed to do!!! I didn't want to see him again - but he woke me up first thing the next morning and said he needed to see me again. It was one of the strangest experiences. At least I got a good story out of it!

I think it has to do with what you have in common and little to do with the individual's personality.

I was talking to this other girl thee other day and the conversation flowed very smoothly because we had similiar interest and P.O.V.
I kind of like Tomboy type women who can drink a beer, cuss, get dirt under her fingernails and still rock a dress.

Girlie girls and me don't mix. I tried it and all we had in common was good sex. I found out at times I had to make up alot of excuses to not speak on the phone just to avoid gossip, shoes, and outfits. I dreaded it.
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Old 04-09-2011, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Macho attitude/adult bully
Liar/dishonest in any way
Racist
Rigid thinking
Intolerant of others in any way ie religion, sex pref, culture
Does not like pets and/or children
Insensitive
Money and/or status obsession

do you pass??
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Old 04-09-2011, 03:25 PM
 
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Macho attitude/adult bully
Liar/dishonest in any way
Racist
Rigid thinking
Intolerant of others in any way ie religion, sex pref, culture
Does not like pets and/or children
Insensitive
Money and/or status obsession

do you pass??

Almost....I'm money hungry.
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Old 04-09-2011, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Well, that's only one out of 8.....so you must be a good guy
and after all, it is necessary to have money



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Almost....I'm money hungry.
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Old 04-09-2011, 07:43 PM
 
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Big turn off in a guy:

Tries to be romantic to impress me. It has to come naturally!
Culturally insensitive.
Racist
Full of himself.
Talks too much.
Drama King
No genuine emotions
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Old 04-10-2011, 07:58 AM
 
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Well, that's only one out of 8.....so you must be a good guy
and after all, it is necessary to have money

Thanks.
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Old 04-10-2011, 08:24 AM
 
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Big turn off in a guy:

Tries to be romantic to impress me. It has to come naturally!
Culturally insensitive.
Racist
Full of himself.
Talks too much.
Drama King
No genuine emotions


Good God...almost described me there for a second.

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Old 01-07-2013, 04:14 PM
 
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Or the opposite. I went out with this guy who asked me out - and he barely said one word the entire time. I tried to keep talking just so we weren't sitting in utter silence. It was so AWKWARD!!! Then he told me later that I sure talk a lot. I was thinking - well, if you don't open your mouth the entire time, what am I supposed to do!!! I didn't want to see him again - but he woke me up first thing the next morning and said he needed to see me again. It was one of the strangest experiences. At least I got a good story out of it!

I have that same problem. It's extremely difficult trying to create conversation with a women. It's like talking to another species..

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Old 01-07-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"Other" -- guys who monopolize the conversation.
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