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Old 06-25-2011, 07:45 AM
 
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Everyone is nice in the beginning.

It sounds like you are only with the girl you are currently with because you simply don't want to be alone and am waiting for someone else to step in immediately so you won't be alone.
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Old 06-25-2011, 07:51 AM
 
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Burg-Get out from the crappy relationship and give yourself a chance to find a good one..
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:23 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Today is "Slap The Stupid Out Of Someone Day".

... just a thought ...
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:37 AM
 
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I am in a relationship about 2 years, and it has been shaky for a while and we've been fighting a lot. Mainly due to her lack of respect to me and saying very rude things about me. It has been really droning and we fight quite often, and just a few days ago I have met a girl who has been really nice to me, and we've been getting along very well.

I'm not really asking what should I do to you guys.. but more.. how would you handle the situation?
I can honestly tell you that EVERY SINGLE WOMEN ON THIS PLANET ARE THE SAME....... they seem to be from the same mold... was your gf really nice to you at the beginning and got along with you great? Wow, I must be psychic... no, its because all of them are the same, after the relationship they go "crazy"... I love my wife even though she drives my head through concrete walls a lot.... this other girl won't be any different... What I do, is think about my wife and if it brings a smile to my face when I think of her... I know everything is going to be okay (you have to do this when you aren't mad at each other)... if you aren't smiling then maybe you should look elsewhere, talk to each other about it, or get counseling...
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:40 AM
 
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I can honestly tell you that EVERY SINGLE WOMEN ON THIS PLANET ARE THE SAME.......
So, you've dated them ALL. Dang! I certainly don't remember you.
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:42 AM
 
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So, you've dated them ALL. Dang! I certainly don't remember you.
Don't worry, I am not very memorable...
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:44 AM
 
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I can honestly tell you that EVERY SINGLE WOMEN ON THIS PLANET ARE THE SAME....... they seem to be from the same mold... was your gf really nice to you at the beginning and got along with you great? Wow, I must be psychic... no, its because all of them are the same, after the relationship they go "crazy"... I love my wife even though she drives my head through concrete walls a lot.... this other girl won't be any different... What I do, is think about my wife and if it brings a smile to my face when I think of her... I know everything is going to be okay (you have to do this when you aren't mad at each other)... if you aren't smiling then maybe you should look elsewhere, talk to each other about it, or get counseling...
I've read your posts about your wife (thinking of the calls while you were talking with the repair guy) and she does sound like an annoying twit. To believe we all fit that mold because that's what you ended up with is ridiculous. My dh doesn't need to worry about me calling him every two seconds while he's talking to the repair guy, because I am the repair guy. OTOH, he's calling me while fetching the things I need at the home depot.
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:45 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Default Take some time...

To think about how you feel about your future together. Have you had a sit-down addressing the issues causing the conflict?

You should also think about the future. Do you want it with her? Can you see yourself without her, and on your own with someone else? Do you look forward to spending time with her at the end of the day? Do you still have similar life goals together? If you are truly unhappy and have a need to break away, It may be for the best. Life is not only too short to be unhappy, but time has a way of slipping by almost unnoticed, And before you realize it years have added up. Good luck, Op and let us know how things work out for you.
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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First of all, is there ANY validity to any of the complaints your g/f has? If so, you may want to consider making some changes in the spirit of self-improvement. Not because she wants it, but because you see a need. Of course, even if you should be changing some things, does not mean she has the right to be disrespectful or nasty about it - unless you are being nasty to her. And if you are she should be leaving you! Anyway, it sounds like your current relationship is on its final downward spiral, and it's usually impossible to recover from that (only you can decide if it's worth trying). This other woman complicates things, but if you think she's a better prospect overall, break up and then move on. Keeping in mind, of course, that some of your current problems may be partly self-inflicted.
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:50 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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I can honestly tell you that EVERY SINGLE WOMEN ON THIS PLANET ARE THE SAME.......
"We are have all your bases!"
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