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Old 04-08-2011, 10:11 PM
 
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There's this female supervisor (not mine, but one I do interact with regularly) who has the rep for being the prettiest woman in our office. Captivating eyes, pretty face, nice slim body with natural chest...wears low cut outfits sometimes and is mostly nice...except when you cross her. She tends to be structured and a tad bossy at times.

Last night I had this dream. She was lying next to me in bed and told me, VAW, remember the rules...(no sex because she's married). And I had to pull back and just be content with lying next maybe just kissing gently and sharing a moment.
It was so weird and nothing like I've experienced before.

What does this mean? Can our work relationship be more chummy or would you focus the tender thoughts on another available woman?
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:16 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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Only go for it if you do not care about the job. After the breakup there will be bad feelings.
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:18 PM
 
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OMG... a dream is a dream is a dream... I dream about girls that seem surreal and highly sensual... guess what... it was a DREAM... get over it...
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:29 PM
 
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It's that subconsciously you're attracted to her and it comes up in a dream. Nothing you can do about it but dream about her.
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:30 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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What does this mean? Can our work relationship be more chummy or would you focus the tender thoughts on another available woman?
Not a whole lot.
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:40 PM
 
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This thread is going into my 'Best of C-D' file.
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Old 04-08-2011, 10:45 PM
 
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Who doesn't have sex dreams once in awhile about colleagues or bosses? I've had plenty. I'm sure most people have them routinely. No big deal.
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Old 04-08-2011, 11:29 PM
 
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It's that subconsciously you're attracted to her and it comes up in a dream. Nothing you can do about it but dream about her.
This is the first time I ever dreamed about a supervisor. It's not like I can just tell myself to dream about her when I'm awake and presto! she appears when I'm zzzzzzzzzzzz

I think this is a sign. The sign is telling me I should at least try being more chummy with her face to face instead of the strictly business approach I have now. Who knows, if we can develop our relationship during the day, she might loosen up in my dreams and I'll feel more refreshed in the morning.
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Old 04-08-2011, 11:33 PM
 
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God help you if her husband doesn't get pissed and come find you... while she is pissed at you and files a sexual harassment suit against you... its a sign alright...
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Old 04-09-2011, 12:02 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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There's this female supervisor (not mine, but one I do interact with regularly) who has the rep for being the prettiest woman in our office. Captivating eyes, pretty face, nice slim body with natural chest...wears low cut outfits sometimes
It means that you think she is hot stuff
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