am married and want to be with another man (how to, advice, friend)

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by WannaliveinGreenville

Totally TROLL smell !

No REAL woman would act like this....

I feel the need to agree. I think OP watched a bunch of soft core porn and posted an reenactment of it.

[Johnny Vanderburgh]

Please tell me I'm not the only one on here who has ever received booty calls from a stripper who claimed to be separated from her husband.

[greatblueheron]

I believe your story......a lot of issues here, concerning you.

Do you know why you chose to work at a strip club? (money is not an answer). Are you educated enough to make money in another way? How does it make you feel to work there? How would you rate your self-esteem?? And what is your husband's reaction to your job?

Did you perhaps have an unpleasant childhood regarding abuse or bizarre family life? Alcoholism or drugs in your life? Not picking on you, but maybe there are underlying issues you have not recognized or are aware of....happens all the time.

Sometimes the nice guys (husband?) don't seem exciting enough for some women.....a little drama or excitement seems more interesting. But in the end....would you really want a relationship with this new guy? He would not change his stripes, so ok with you if he still went to clubs even if he was with you? And had sex with others etc...? At least he knows he is not marriage material!

Suggest some counseling as other poster did......this is about your health and future. You need some help, we all do at times....good luck

Originally Posted by Snort

Post a pic in your profile. Make us believers.

[StilltheSame]

Originally Posted by dyoerg

I need to know if he's into me. Any tips on how I should proceed to know if he likes me, or what he thinks of me?

1. Yes, yes he is into you.
2. Proceed as you have been - in fact speed up the separation from your husband because you and this new guy are made for each other and truly deserve to spend as much time together as possible.

I just know how happy the 2 of you will be.

[headhunter18]

Originally Posted by WannaliveinGreenville

Totally TROLL smell !

No REAL woman would act like this....

Most American women I have seen behave the same way.

[DrummerBoy]

Jeez, yet another emotionally effed-up stripper with committment problems as a result of Daddy Issues.
This is about as common as oxygen molecules.
Back in my struggling musician days I bounced and bartended at a couple different "Gentlemen's Clubs" for about three years, and even though I had the opportunity many times, I took the advice of otehr dudes who worked around strippers and never, ever made the mistake of dating one. 90% od them are emotional trainwrecks, either as a result of their past or from all the blow they do. I guess it rots their brains.
Yep: every father's worst nightmare: seeing his daughter on the pole! A sure sign he screwed-up worse than Paris Hilton doing a triginometry exam.

[stevebri]

Originally Posted by supermanpansy

Those strippers lied to you. They just didn't want you. I have been with numerous strippers in my life. They tell that to the ones who they don't want..... No your right though, "technically" they aren't supposed to leave with you, however, if a girl is feeling someone, do you really think that they are going to let some two bit strip club manager control who they see?

P.S. don't quit on us OP', the old lady aint coming home for another hour, and the popcorns still warm.

I'd like to know how much money you paid the strippers you were referring to, because that is all they were interested in.

[ambient]

Originally Posted by dyoerg

Anyways, my question to all of you is, am I wasting my time in chasing after a man who is soooo impossibly good looking and has never been married at the age of 44, and goes to strip clubs looking to buy sex?

Yes.

And furthermore, it would seem that you are practicing a life-long habit of extremely bad personal decision making.

[stevebri]

Originally Posted by supermanpansy
Those strippers lied to you. They just didn't want you. I have been with numerous strippers in my life. They tell that to the ones who they don't want..... No your right though, "technically" they aren't supposed to leave with you, however, if a girl is feeling someone, do you really think that they are going to let some two bit strip club manager control who they see?

P.S. don't quit on us OP', the old lady aint coming home for another hour, and the popcorns still warm.

Originally Posted by stevebri

I'd like to know how much money you paid the strippers you were referring to, because that is all they were interested in.

Just to clarify, I have never asked a stripper out, never wanted to. That is just asking for trouble, sort of like asking a thief to guard a bank vault.

[pkrplr1]

Originally Posted by stevebri

Originally Posted by supermanpansy
Those strippers lied to you. They just didn't want you. I have been with numerous strippers in my life. They tell that to the ones who they don't want..... No your right though, "technically" they aren't supposed to leave with you, however, if a girl is feeling someone, do you really think that they are going to let some two bit strip club manager control who they see?

P.S. don't quit on us OP', the old lady aint coming home for another hour, and the popcorns still warm.




Just to clarify, I have never asked a stripper out, never wanted to. That is just asking for trouble, sort of like asking a thief to guard a bank vault.

many, many years ago i went to a strip club alone. i was in a very unhappy marriage so i knocked off work and went. i was about the only one there at 2pm. anyway this stripper started talking to me and she was smoking hot, she was intelligent too. she no doubt wanted to hook up but i just couldn't do it. i was married and she was a stripper with two kids and who needs that? i think about it sometimes and wonder... we talked for a good 2 hours. she wanted me to come back to her place and "fix her grill" for her. like i said i just couldn't...