am married and want to be with another man (women, single, husband)

[CarolVa1977]

I will get some popcorn and watch this thread

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Not buying what the OP is selling

Me, neither. That's written by a man simply to stir the forum (likely somebody who's been here before).

[DONNIEANDDONNA417]

eeewwww!

[donie1]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

I'd love to read some replies on this one, because I'm speechless.

I'm with you on this one.

[dyoerg]

CPG, thanks for not ragging on me. I think I am truly just going tough phase of my marriage, same things different days and I am looking for excitement. Based on everyone's answers is clear to me now, and in the back of my mind I knew this, that this guys is simply using me. I think I will take time off to live alone and figure out where I am going in my life, and if I truly love my husband. I don't want to be with a man simply because he's safe and loves me (I think that is smart strategy when you are young, but when you are hitting your sexual peak, this is simply not enough). I may need time to live out my sexual desires a bit, and maybe if I find that I want to return to my marriage, I can try to work things out with my husband once more, and do the children thing. I just want to be true to myself and live a full life that includes lots of good sex with a man I am really turns my fire on!

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Me, neither. That's written by a man simply to stir the forum (likely somebody who's been here before).

I think I know who

[dyoerg]

Ok, also wanted to add, not sure what is meant by 'trollish' but am not a troll! I am a 9.5 in a scale of 1-10, 10 being the hottest (and I look like Leona Lewis, without the big nose). And this stuff is for real!

[round4]

Ehhhh.. I'm not even going to look here. I can't stand a cheater or a liar, so if this is will they are cheating, if not, a liar.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Me, neither. That's written by a man simply to stir the forum (likely somebody who's been here before).

Possibly the case. It was a good read nevertheless.

[TaoistDude]

Bad girl! Go to my room!

Seriously, though, you're caught in the old biological dilemma. You married the guy who will stick around and be there for you and your kids, but you're attracted to the more masculine bad boy type. Often what happens is that you end up pregnant by the bad boy, and dear hubby never has a clue.

I hope you come to your senses, but I doubt you will pull yourself together. If you don't, I hope your husband figures this out before he becomes even more of a victim. I have no sympathy for cheaters, but it's not - yet - too late to reform and do the ethically right thing from here on.