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Ankhharu · 04-13-2011, 06:32 PM

I smell rubbish.

Ankhharu · 04-13-2011, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka

I wanna know where she is stripping

willing to bet it's not a she, and it's a he with a made up story.

Snort · 04-13-2011, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by dyoerg

Ok, also wanted to add, not sure what is meant by 'trollish' but am not a troll! I am a 9.5 in a scale of 1-10, 10 being the hottest (and I look like Leona Lewis, without the big nose). And this stuff is for real!

Post a pic in your profile. Make us believers.

headhunter18 · 04-13-2011, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by dyoerg

I have been happily married for almost 5 years, with a man who is absolutely wonderful, perfect in every way, handsome, healthy both mentally and physically, treats me like a Queen and is absolutely crazy about me. I married him because of all of his qualities and figured I would never be unhappy with him. Sex is not bad, but he doesn't turn me on from a single glance. I know he's an attractive man and can be turned on by the though of sex, but not by his physical looks. And so, I don't seek to have sex with him and we are simply not sexually active, and have no kids yet. I am now working as a stripper and get to meet many interesting men with money, and although I have my boundaries in the back room, I ended up making out with a really hot guy in the back room. A few days later I was sooo excited by him still that I reached out to him for sex, explained I was married and just wanted to have an affair. I visited his home and had great sex and now I am sooooo into this guy. I am sooo attracted to him, the way he smells, the way he keeps his home, so clean and organized, he runs his own business, and is so put together. My husband has great qualities too, but this guy is physically more my type (brown hair, green eyes, movie star looks, athletic, etc) and when I think of him, I get excited and heated up inside. I proposed to my husband that we should get divorced b/c I am not physically attracted to him anymore and I met a guy that I want to have a chance with. Now all my effort has been focused in getting this guy's attention. My question is, does this guy like me, do I have a chance with him. He's never been married, is separated from his current girlfriend of 8 years and has never married her b/c he doesn't believe in marriage, but he wants a kid with her, she doesn't want kids b/c she's older now, late 30s. I am early 30s and would give him a kid in a heartbeat that's how attracted I am to this guy. Anyways, my question to all of you is, am I wasting my time in chasing after a man who is soooo impossibly good looking and has never been married at the age of 44, and goes to strip clubs looking to buy sex?
Also, we have met for sex 3 times now after I have initiated the booty calls, but he has never initiated the booty calls himself. When we are together he's not overly affectionate, but in general, he's a quiet man. I need to know if he's into me. Any tips on how I should proceed to know if he likes me, or what he thinks of me?

You are the IDEAL definition of an American woman, the kind of one's that I find everyday, including the gym instructor I saw today who gave me a haughty look.

Aptor hours · 04-13-2011, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by darrensmooth

I dont know where to start with this one...

first off you need to get divorce proceedings or at least seperate from your husband

No No! Join the lifestyle!

ALackOfCreativity · 04-13-2011, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Snort

Post a pic in your profile. Make us believers.

She can't. Either:

a) She is a troll

b) She is the real deal, and is a stripper in her early thirties. If so, she didn't walk in the door yesterday, and ~ten years of late nights and coke/meth binges will have left more than a bit of a mark.