Player until the right one?

[BKSnook]

Originally Posted by misswee

I have definatly come to the conclusion that he was never a "player"... just was seeing those three girls at the same time before me was apparently a "low time" in his life... he was the realtionship guy before that so... I may have miss read him...

If dating three girls at once is someone's "low time", I envy them when they reach their "high time", no pun intended.

[Hegotsoul831]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

Here's mine:

Idiotic Definitions of a Bad Boy or Player
1. An extremely good looking guy. ( Effing stupid )
2. A good looking rich guy. ( stupid )
3. A non-conformist. ( Idiotic to a slightly lesser extent )
4. A black guy. ( *Shaking My Head* )

Anybody else ?

Lol.. Yeah the black guy always manages to
get tossed onto that heap. {smh too}

[misswee]

Originally Posted by Hegotsoul831

Lol.. Yeah the black guy always manages to
get tossed onto that heap. {smh too}

maybe an envy of players, and an envy of them too??

[Malkiel]

Originally Posted by misswee

Any ex players out there who stopped playing when the right girl came around? OR out of al honesty is the saying true, once a player, allways a player??

Maybe what a lot of us females consider "playing" is the guys version of "dating" and fishing around for the right one???

Give me your expert advice!

There's never the right one. There's always someone out there who's prettier, smarter, richer, and more interesting than the person you're dating.

Players can't accept that there's a better deal out there so they never stop playing.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by misswee

Any ex players out there who stopped playing when the right girl came around? OR out of al honesty is the saying true, once a player, allways a player??

Maybe what a lot of us females consider "playing" is the guys version of "dating" and fishing around for the right one???

Give me your expert advice!

How is he a player when he stopped after he found the right one?
How else are you suppose to find the right one?

[jeepgirl27]

Originally Posted by misswee

Any ex players out there who stopped playing when the right girl came around? OR out of al honesty is the saying true, once a player, allways a player??

Maybe what a lot of us females consider "playing" is the guys version of "dating" and fishing around for the right one???

Give me your expert advice!

I played the field until I found the right one..and I'm a woman..
Men were my play toys...I never let them get too close..some tried..but some weren't ones I wanted to get serious with..When I found the one I wanted to be with and knew he was worth it..I stopped all my sexual innuendo's..I never think about being with him and others..he is the only I want to be with..
So no not once a player always a player..that goes for both men and women.

[VegasMJ]

Once a playa always a playa. Might find the right one someday, but there are 3 million other women out there who are potentially better. I personally like this lifestyle - no stress, no damn kids, no BS when I get home from work or the club. It does NOT work for everybody, though.