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Old 04-20-2011, 04:59 PM
 
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Nice attempt at responding while essentially ignoring my comment.
I mostly don't care for the past. I'd rather live in the present and plan my future. If I'm thinking of the past, I'm thinking of mostly bad memories and what ifs. Most things I care little for.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I mostly don't care for the past. I'd rather live in the present and plan my future. If I'm thinking of the past, I'm thinking of mostly bad memories and what ifs. Most things I care little for.
Lucky you.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:05 PM
 
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Lucky you.
How is that lucky?

I'm lucky because I've yet to do anything that will forever remind me of a bad memory. Well, mostly...
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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How is that lucky?
Oh, it's just that I tend to dwell on the past.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:18 PM
 
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Oh, it's just that I tend to dwell on the past.
I've done that before. I quickly became depressed. I know how bad I felt and I don't want to become that again.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:21 PM
 
Location: USA
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Bummer dude and dudette

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I mostly don't care for the past. I'd rather live in the present and plan my future. If I'm thinking of the past, I'm thinking of mostly bad memories and what ifs. Most things I care little for.
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I burn them all unless I look really good in one of them or they have other people in it worth keeping. I have zero need for memories of the past, my brain is already on overload with the present!
Did you not enjoy any of your past relationships?

I typically only have good thoughts, super fun times and fantastic lovin. Even the woman that ended up not being very good, and that is a very small number, I have fond memories of. Hell, even my 2 stalker experiences were fun woman until they turned crazy
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:29 PM
 
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Bummer dude and dudette





Did you not enjoy any of your past relationships?

I typically only have good thoughts, super fun times and fantastic lovin. Even the woman that ended up not being very good, and that is a very small number, I have fond memories of. Hell, even my 2 stalker experiences were fun woman until they turned crazy
Tossing away any past photos of women does not mean that I didn't enjoy the relationships.

I have fond memories of those women. They will be with me until the day I die. Why do I need a picture? It's not that I want to hide things from the woman I would be with, it's that I only carry pictures of really important people that have impacted my life. Family mostly, and most of those are of my mom, grandpa, and my aunts.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:39 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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Bummer dude and dudette

Did you not enjoy any of your past relationships?

I typically only have good thoughts, super fun times and fantastic lovin. Even the woman that ended up not being very good, and that is a very small number, I have fond memories of. Hell, even my 2 stalker experiences were fun woman until they turned crazy
My past relationship had its ups more than it had its downs. But though I don't harbor ill feelings towards my ex, those photos are just no longer needed. Also factored in is the fact that in a fit of rage I tend to destroy things.
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Old 04-20-2011, 06:18 PM
 
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My past relationship had its ups more than it had its downs. But though I don't harbor ill feelings towards my ex, those photos are just no longer needed. Also factored in is the fact that in a fit of rage I tend to destroy things.
So you have had only one other relationship, gottcha?

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Tossing away any past photos of women does not mean that I didn't enjoy the relationships.

I have fond memories of those women. They will be with me until the day I die. Why do I need a picture? It's not that I want to hide things from the woman I would be with, it's that I only carry pictures of really important people that have impacted my life. Family mostly, and most of those are of my mom, grandpa, and my aunts.
I see. Yeah, I don't have too many pictures myself, but they are mostly electronic, so i'm sure theyre on the internet somewhere.
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Old 04-20-2011, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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I only kept the pictures of my ex's if I was in them. If it's just them, they get tossed, burned, ripped up, attached to the dart board, etc. I have kept a few just because. But they are packed up in photo albums, or on CD's.
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