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I know I thought about that but it's one of those you do and can't go back. I'm still wondering if I should call her or let things stay as they are and move on with my life.
CALL HER! Now! Ask her to give you another chance. Take her out on a nice date and explain what happened.
Tell yourself that dumb teenagers do it all the time and if they can, you can too.
I had been seeing this woman for a while, she's really great, very good looking, funny, intelligent. It was our 5th date and I invited her to my house. We had a few drinks, saw some old pics, etc. She then started to touch me and kiss me in a way I knew would eventually lead to sex. When I was sure she intended to spend the night there I panicked for obvious reasons.
I told her to stop because I needed to tell her something. Then I said I had been enjoying the dates but that we weren't really fit for each other and perhaps we should stop going out together. I then showed her the door. I could see she was really surprised and disappointed and kept saying 'What did I do wrong? Do you expect me to believe it just like this?'. I told her I'm no good for her and that there are plenty of single men around who can make her happy.
I really ruined it. But I panicked seriously, I saw very embarrassing moments coming had I let things flow.
Should I try to reconnect with her? Sorry for bringing my personal drama here, but I can't speak about this with no one, for obvious reasons as well.
marlow and sierraAZ are right. get on the phone, go over to see her, send her flowers...something. you owe her an apology. you lied to her big time. tell her were in a panic. didn't want to "out" yourself and instead of doing so, you were extremely hurtful to her and for that you should say sorry.
you can tell her the real reason or not depending on if you want to try to salvage the relationship.
one thing to understand if you are going to have sex one of these days best to just go with the flow. even guys with tons of experience don't hit a home run every time.
marlow and sierraAZ are right. get on the phone, go over to see her, send her flowers...something. you owe her an apology. you lied to her big time. tell her were in a panic. didn't want to "out" yourself and instead of doing so, you were extremely hurtful to her and for that you should say sorry.
you can tell her the real reason or not depending on if you want to try to salvage the relationship.
one thing to understand if you are going to have sex one of these days best to just go with the flow. even guys with tons of experience don't hit a home run every time.
I agree with you. OP needs to call this woman NOW and tell her the truth about himself. If she is a class act, she will find it charming and work with him.
I agree with that. The situation may be salvageable. Some women might even find it adorable.
Absolutely. She's already indicated that she's ready, willing and able. At this point he has nothing at all to lose.
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But I panicked seriously, I saw very embarrassing moments coming had I let things flow.
