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Old 05-04-2011, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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I didn't say that, did I?

This opens up a whole new can of worms... guys buying gifts for their gf's all the time...
Yes. O is insinuating that all women are prostitutes if they dont work or or dont pay and accept dinner dates, gifts etc. from their boyfriends/husband dates, etc. and they only have sex because he is paying for dates or providing income:

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"Hookers don't just have sex for dollars/euros/yen...some do it for a drug fix, a night on a warm bed, for a roof, for jewelry, for fancy dinners, etc. Whatever is exchanged for sex is just that, prostitution. There are women who go out with a guy who spends all kinds of money on them (dinners, vacations, drinks, entertaiment, etc.) and all she brings to the relationship is, sex. I think you get the idea."
yet he goes on about all the asian women that ask him out and pay for the date. it sounds like you are backing this up.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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Yes. O is insinuating that all women are prostitutes if they dont work or or dont pay and accept dinner dates, gifts etc. from their boyfriends/husband dates, etc. and they only have sex because he is paying for dates or providing income:


yet he goes on about all the asian women that ask him out and pay for the date. it sounds like you are backing this up.
This is my position on the matter: If a woman is only having sex with a guy because he's paying for dates/gifts, then she is acting like a prostitute. If a girlfriend is only giving sex to her boyfriend, because he's paying for dates/gifts, then she is twisted and manipulative.

If a women has sex with a guy, and he buys her lots of gifts/dinner, and she has no expectations or connection between the two, then it is not prostitution, twisted, or manipulative - but I do think the guy is a sucker.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:56 PM
 
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This is my position on the matter: If a woman is only having sex with a guy because he's paying for dates/gifts, then she is acting like a prostitute. If a girlfriend is only giving sex to her boyfriend, because he's paying for dates/gifts, then she is twisted and manipulative.

If a women has sex with a guy, and he buys her lots of gifts/dinner, and she has no expectations or connection between the two, then it is not prostitution, twisted, or manipulative - but I do think the guy is a sucker.
How about if she gives him lots of sex and he gives her nothing back ? What's that called ?
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:59 PM
 
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How about if she gives him lots of sex and he gives her nothing back ? What's that called ?
A guy who's bad at sex?

He should be getting her off as much as he's getting off... and that should make sex as appealing to him as it is to her.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:00 PM
 
Location: US
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How about if she gives him lots of sex and he gives her nothing back ? What's that called ?
A dumb ass
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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I don't think he had sex with them for the dinners or gifts. Sex and benefits are mutually exclusive. He would still bang 'em if they stopped buying him dinner... unlike a prostitute.
Speak for yourself. Actually, O has said many times that he would stop dating a women who didn't buy him dinners.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:04 PM
 
Location: US
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Speak for yourself. Actually, O has said many times that he would stop dating a women who didn't buy him dinners.
LOL....who is the ***** now?
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:06 PM
 
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How about if she gives him lots of sex and he gives her nothing back ? What's that called ?
It's called a fantasy .
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:08 PM
 
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Speak for yourself. Actually, O has said many times that he would stop dating a women who didn't buy him dinners.
And you would stop dating men who don't buy you anything at all or those who don't "overspend" on you (that is a word you came up with before). JustJulia also has agreed that if by the 2nd date the man doesn't reciprocate, that's it, no more dates. Interesting thing is that since that came from a woman, no girl in here flamed her. But if a guy says the same thing, oh my goodness, how terrible he is.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:09 PM
 
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Speak for yourself. Actually, O has said many times that he would stop dating a women who didn't buy him dinners.
Whoa jumping on me with horrible grammar, relax now.

If I incorrectly read into his situation, that is my fault. I've stated my personal position on it.
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